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Cheater what do I do ?
17/f Long story short I caught my boyfriend texting his ex a girl he choose over me in the past calling her baby & all this stuff , I broke up with him though we have been seeing eachother everyday as usual , I haven't had sex with him until today and he ask's me back out . He's cheated on me like 3 times in one year and is mean and yells at me a lot and I feel like id be much better without him but I love him so much and feel like id die without him . Idk I told him yes and now we are back together, but I have a feeling this will happen again . Am I wrong for giving him another chance ? Idk if I'm right or wrong ,i promised my friends we wouldn't get back together as I had in the past and always let them down , I know they're going to be mad at me..
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I think you answered your own question in your question. If one of your friends came to you with this problem, wouldn't you tell her to, "dump his scummy ass?" I know I would. Hell, I'd even snap my fingers in a Z formation. But my sassy black woman attitude aside, he's not a good guy, he cheats on you, he's mean to you, he yells at you, these are all signs of an asshole. Find yourself a good guy.
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Basically, he has emotionally abandoned you and you keep coming back for more. So let me ask you this: is your father present in your life both physically (in other words, is he there for you) and emotionally? Because women often tend to repeat their relationships with their fathers in who they select as dating partners.
You also probably secretly like being the victim in this since victims get tons of attention and sympathy from those around them.
Your friends are, for good reason, obviously fed up with you emotionally vampiring them by complaining about the guy incessantly and are irritated that you refuse to take the bull by the horns and permanently punt the sucker out of your life. So it is up to you to end the vicious and, for your friends, annoying, cycle. If you don't, then don't complain about it.
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