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Texting A Guy
Okay so I met this guy at a concert, and he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We then went to eat and we talked for like over an hour. Hes really cool and I like him.
He texted me the next day after we ate, but then he didnt text me again. So I text him after a day or so, and he still answers and has a conversation with me when I do text him.
He works 12 hours a day during the week, so I figured thats why he doesnt initiate the conversation.
But, I initiated the conversation the last couple of times, and I'm wondering if me always starting the conversation is strange? Like clingy? I like him, and I want to talk to him, so I just text him. I'm trying not to overanalyze it and just get to know him.
I'll take guys/girls perspective on this. thank you!
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To be honest, I don't think you're being too clingy. I ALWAYS have the same worry when I talk to this guy I like on FB. But think about it. If you WERE being clingy, wouldn't he tell you? Orrrr ask yourself this. If you were being "clingy" and "bothering" him, then why would he continue to talk to you? It's probably just because you know, HE LIKES TALKING TO YOU. Maybe next time if it happens, ask him if you're bothering him.. and tell him to be honest about it. He probably will be. As I said before, I'm going through pretty much the same thing with a guy I like. I ALWAYS start the conversation, and sometimes he doesn't say anything, but other times we end up talking for over 2 hours. And I thought he was ignoring/avoiding me, so I just flat out asked him, "look do I bother you? Be honest." And he said "not really haha." So I thought maybe he wasn't sure about it, so I asked if he was sure, and he said "positive". I hope (if you DO decide to do that) that the same will happen for you, and you'll discover that you wasted about 10 minutes on Advicenators asking about it. In conclusion, I'm about 85% sure you have nothing to worry about it. Just ask him about it. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then try it out on him. Don't talk to him for a while.. he may wonder the same thing about you, you never know. But I would personally go with the first one.. I really hope this helps you!! :)
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I don't think it's that big of a deal. Now if you sent lets say... 10 messages in a row that would be strange and clingy. haha! Good luck!
xoxo,
dottie4
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