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an on-off crush that is tearing me apart
well, i really like a guy, well at least i think i do, because honestly i don't know anymore, i'm so confused. i mean, he's the most amazing, nicest guy i have ever met, and i melt every time i see him smile and naturally smile back.
he's so kind to everyone that i can't tell if he likes me or not.
ok, just to indicate a silent convo between us is, i had to go to his accounting class cause my teacher wanted to see me and he was sitting right in the front and he was having a bad day, his brother fell through a window... and he was glum and he looked up and did this beamy/glowy smiling thing at me like he was the happiest guy in the world, and i smiled back and his smile widened and he mouthed "Hi" i smiled again and mouthed "Hi" back.
this happens so often. and i'm so confused.
i'm thirteen
and he's a few years older.
and i need help. cause i can't keep talking myself into not liking him when his smile reaches his eyes.
oh and for the record, he's deleted me a few times off bbm. it sucks ass.
PS: we had a valentines ball and i was waitressing and he pushed his way through everyone and said hi to me, and we laighed, i can't remember much i was just happy. were so much more connected in person
and i'm tired of listening to love songs and of him poping in and out of my head
- Juliet -female, duh (:
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Let him know how you feel. Don't be shy. Guys love girls who are head-strong, confident, and strong.
If he rejects you, just brush it off like its not a problem and move on with you're life.
You're 13, you've got a long way to go until you find the love of your life. I know I have found mine:) It took a while to find him but once you find him, you know he's the one. You're still very young, don't go boy-crazy and obsessed haha just have fun :)
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well, I don't know what the hell a bbm is, but I assume its some kind of social networking device. if you're this struck by him, and he's this bonkers over you(or not, whatever..), then perhaps you should bring up the subject of dating with him. Last I checked, "he was glum and he looked up and did this beamy/glowy smiling thing at me like he was the happiest guy in the world" only happened to me when I really liked a girl. so stop dick-dancing around and talk to the guy.
good luck
-Gunner
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