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how to tease flirt, and get noticed
Well, all of my friends at dances or just in recess always tease the guys. Like, OOH THE WAY YOU SWING FROM BAR TO BAR JUST TURNS ME ON! and they stick their butt out. So like, tease flirting. But the guys always get turned on.. and well i dunno how to do that. i always feel awkward, like not confident enough to do it. Like they might say ew,and reject me even if i'm teasing. and even if i get over it, wont it be weird if all of the sudden i get a boost of confidence, and they notice? (i'm 12 in 7th grade, AND NO THATS NOT TOO YOUNG)
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Flirting is fine, but at 12 trying to turn someone one isn't the greatest idea.
Talk and have fun and be yourself, you don't have to fit in to be an amazing person.
[And remember that the popular kids usually are the ones that work for the kids that weren't as popular.]
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Well, no, it's not too young to be wanting attention, but it is rather young to want to turn them on and the evidence for why it shouldn't matter at all is simply the way your friends go about doing it. I'll be honest here, generally the girls that tease and flirt a lot with flimsy sexual responses.
Guys tend to use this age to learn what they want and the girls who get their attention are more often than not the "slutty" ones, that, in a few years, the good guys out there wouldn't touch with a stick.
but if you still want to join in with them, just contribute to the conversations every now and then and say flirty things to your friends too eg. slap their asses when they stick them out for the boys. that will probably work on boys that age
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Just be yourself because you can't be anyone else. Also, you're rather young to be obsessing over what turns guys on. So relax and don't worry about it.
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i meant 13 ^^^
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