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He's poly but we're in a monogamous relationship. Help!
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 4:29 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together about a year. We live together and are planning to get married. When I first met him, we were aiming for something casual, as we'd both gotten out of relationships. Therefore, when he said he was poly, it didnt bother me - I didnt want anything from him but the obvious.
However, we both developed very strong feelings for each other and began to struggle with the inevitable issue. He identified as poly, and I'm hardwired monogamous.
We tried to make compromises between the two, and though he didnt meet anyone, the door was potentially open, in some regards. But not open enough, so one night we had a massive fight and things almost ended.
I agreed to try and w...
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Conversations with my girlfriend
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 4:01 pm
Whenever me and my girlfriend are texting we dont really talk about much and sometimes ill ask "want to have a good conversation.." meaning flirty and like talk about stuff we do when we hang out...but most of the time shes never in the mood doesnt wanna talk and when i dont text her she gets sad saying why dont you text me anymore...what should i do?..
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Emotionally cheating?
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 3:55 pm
Am I emotionally cheating? I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and everything has been great. But there's a new guy I work with that I keep thinking about. What do I do? I don't want to think about or like this guy I work with, but for some reason I'm attracted to him. I still have feelings for my boyfriend though and I for sure want to be with my bf. What do I do? I don't want this to sabotage my relationship- I'd never cheat on my boyfriend physically but am I being dishonest to him by having another guy on my mind?
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What can I say?
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 2:40 am
What can I say to a guy in which I text, that when I tell him whats up? He always says: Nothing. What can I say to him to keep him talkinq to me?
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How do you know when you are in love?
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 12:15 am
How do you know if your in love?
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What is Love?
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 12:14 am
What is Love? I always hear people sayong they love someone or something but what does it all really mean? Why do people like my parents and family say they love me? Is there actually something so ridiculous and naive out there?
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I used to like him, but now I don't. How do I tell him?
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 11:37 pm
well theres this guy who i used to like, and he didnt like me much back then, now i dont like him and he likes me. How do i let him know i dont like him, without hurting his feelings? any answers would REALLY be appreciated !
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What does it mean when a guy says your too innocent?
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 11:22 pm
When a guy tells his friend that he thinks you are too innocent what does that even mean?
My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future?
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my friend is slutty
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 4:40 pm
i have a friend whos had sex many times with many different guys. Shes really kool, but most people say shes a hoe. Shes only 13 and had sex with over 3 different guys, She even gave head to a boy younger than her, i dont know how to tell her without hurting her feelings? any sugestions would be appreciated.
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I dont feel the spark when i kiss my boyfriend....
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 3:26 pm
Ok so My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, when we had our first kiss i felt something i never felt before, im guessing that's the spark, So we just kissed like normal (not making out ) then after 2 months of dating we decided to start making out, every since we started making out i dont feel the spark .... Is this normal, I love kissing him and all but i havent kissed him normally for a month now :/ i havent felt the spark for a month, should i tell him or... Can i make there be a spark when we make out ?
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What can I do?
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 3:08 pm
Well, I have a problem. I like this guy, but he recently broke up with his girlfriend like a week ago. And I want him to ask me out cuz he used to have a crush on me. And now, I like him. He says Im cute but nothing happens. He wanted to kiss me when he was dating her. But, the problem is that, she's one of my best friends. And he broke up with her but im scared to go out with him because I dont wanna hurt her feelings. And she still likes him, but she doesnt know that I like him.
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Things to do while Fiance is away training for the Military
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 2:55 pm
18/F
I'm getting married in August :) My fiance is in the Navy and will be training as a SEAL here soon. After we're married we will only have 10 days together before he leaves and goes to training. Then 2 days later I go back to college. With all his training it's going to be really hard see each other. Basically our first year of marriage will be spent apart. I'll see him at his boot camp graduationa and possibly Christmas. Then he goes to BUDS for 6 months and I won't be able to see him then. I'm just worried about how I'm going to be able to cope and handle being away from him that long. We'll be together for 4 years this September. I have my college while he's gone so I know that will keep my semi busy. I just need advic...
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Do I Like Him?
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 12:52 pm
Well, i have a best friend who's a guy.... And he's really nice and funny... But here's the problem: For the past month, I've been feeling all nervous and happy when I'm around him, but I just want to know: Does this mean I like him or not? And if I do like him, what do I do to not let him know and make our friendship weird??
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Gorgeous guy trouble
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 10:45 am
20/f
Okay so i work at a drugstore, in the front of the store, and we just got a new pharmacy intern a week ago. I swear that he is the most gorgeous guy I have ever seen..he makes me melt when I see him and gives me serious butterflies, kind of like a middle school crush. The issue is that hes very quiet and shy and I have a social anxiety disorder so us ever speaking at all to eachother isnt looking promising. Me approaching him is never going to happen no matter how bad I would like to due to my anxiety. So my questions are, how would I even know if he's interested? especially if he's shy..and how do I get him to notice me? I usually have no problem with guys but he's different, he's very very intimidating.
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I want to know if I can get this guy to ask me out.
Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 8:01 am
Ok, so there's this guy who I text with. We have good communication he has asked me out before. But, it's this year that I like him. He had a girlfriend. And he broke up with her. And he knows I now, like him. He flirts with me, and he was going to kiss me while he had a girlfriend. But, I said no and got mad at him because he was in a relationship. Now, that he's single he doesnt talk to me about that or anything. Im the one that has to make a conversationo. And I try not texting him everyday, so he wont think Im obsessed or weird. So, I send him love notes. And he says they're cute and that I'm cute but, I think he doesnt like me because he doesnt tell me even though he knows I like him. So, I dont know what to do anymore..
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i am scared to be with him
Posted Tuesday June 21 2011, 1:02 pm
I am 20/f he's 26/m. This guy really likes me and we've been on two dates. I mean he came all the way from the other side of town to see me. See i can't date really, i know that sounds ridiculous but i can't tell my parents so i have to meet him in secrecy. Well anyways he wants to make it work from what he's told me. And well it's not really the whole my parents finding out, it's more i wanted a boyfriend for so long, and i was really boy crazy, but now i am just not sure i want that right now. I want to just want to focus on myself. He gave me an ultimatum saying i should just tell my parents, lie to them, because he really wants to make it work, and i am just not sure. So what should i do?
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how to impress a girl
Posted Tuesday June 21 2011, 12:36 pm
hoe to impress a girl
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love life and friendship question
Posted Tuesday June 21 2011, 12:17 am
Hello. I'm 20 f and I've been single for about 3 years. I don't know why. I've been told that I'm very beautiful and I think I'm a fun person. I thought that because three days I've been feeling do lonely, I could ask a good friend of mine to find me a match. Not to force anything just one date or something. But I feel kind of embarrassed. I don't have many girlfriends and maybe its just awkward because my friend is a guy but a very nice person. I just want to broaden my horizons and expand my love life and this person can help me. I just don't know how to ask him. Thank u!
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what are some good songs? (:
Posted Monday June 20 2011, 10:24 pm
I mostly listen to eminem Justin bieber Taylor swift and the ready set. what are some good love songs with that kind of style of music to it.
I'm a 13 yearold girl and if the songs are about boy friends and best friends that you have crushes on when they feel the same or they don't. what are some good songs along those lines?
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love triangle
Posted Monday June 20 2011, 9:13 pm
listen last time i asked a question and i got some good answers now im back about the same guy now everything is worst. he says he loves me and that he wants a kid and a family. im already 2 months but the problem is that his ex girl of three years AND HIM STILL LOVE EACH OTHER HE LOVES ME AND LOVES HER AND IM CONFUSED....HELP!
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