I used to like him, but now I don't. How do I tell him?
Question Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 11:37 pm
well theres this guy who i used to like, and he didnt like me much back then, now i dont like him and he likes me. How do i let him know i dont like him, without hurting his feelings? any answers would REALLY be appreciated !
Razhie answered Thursday June 23 2011, 9:46 am: Just be honest.
It ALWAYS hurts when someone tells you they don't feel the same.
You can't protect him from that - if you try too hard to protect him from the truth you risk leading him on and giving him false hope. And that's even worse.
Tell him you just don't have romantic feelings for him anymore. Tell him you hate to hurt him, and if you want to be his friend, tell him that too. But above all make sure he understands that you are not interested. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
venesaw10 answered Thursday June 23 2011, 3:33 am: Hello,
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