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I used to like him, but now I don't. How do I tell him?


Question Posted Wednesday June 22 2011, 11:37 pm

well theres this guy who i used to like, and he didnt like me much back then, now i dont like him and he likes me. How do i let him know i dont like him, without hurting his feelings? any answers would REALLY be appreciated !

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melissa123 answered Friday July 1 2011, 11:31 am:
if i was in your situation i would tell him that you just want to be really good friends with him, because if you guys were to go out, your friendshiip may not stay the same. and then try to hang out with him and stuff as a friend.

maybe say what i said then be like but we are friends,(and smile or something) and then ask him if he wants to hang out that night or something.

hope i helped and good luck!(:

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Razhie answered Thursday June 23 2011, 9:46 am:
Just be honest.

It ALWAYS hurts when someone tells you they don't feel the same.

You can't protect him from that - if you try too hard to protect him from the truth you risk leading him on and giving him false hope. And that's even worse.

Tell him you just don't have romantic feelings for him anymore. Tell him you hate to hurt him, and if you want to be his friend, tell him that too. But above all make sure he understands that you are not interested.

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venesaw10 answered Thursday June 23 2011, 3:33 am:
Hello,

You could try saying how you feel right now. You dont know what the future hold. You could also treasure him as a friend.

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