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What can I say?


Question Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 2:40 am

What can I say to a guy in which I text, that when I tell him whats up? He always says: Nothing. What can I say to him to keep him talkinq to me?

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lovealways1221 answered Thursday June 23 2011, 8:11 pm:
I hate when guys reply like that hahaha. It gets on my nervous soo badly.

I'm the type of girl who completely ignores the guy if he says that. If he doesn't sound interested.. then why should i force him to talk to me? If he wants to talk to you, he will contact you first. Set aside your phone for a few days and don't even bother texting him. See if he says something. If he says something- ignore him another day and text him the next day. Make HIM do the chasing.. instead of you always chasing him and trying to talk to him.

The way I see it- both people need to make an effort. obvi you're making an effort by starting the conversation and texting him first. But if he's saying "nothing", then he's not putting effort into the friendship/relationship. Then that's really not worth it.

Ignore him for a few days and make him wonder why you haven't talked to him. make him curious and make him WANT to talk to you. If he still hasn't mustered up the strength to talk to you within a week.. well then he's definitely not worth it and you can forget about it and find another guy who will WANT to talk to you :)

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