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love triangle
listen last time i asked a question and i got some good answers now im back about the same guy now everything is worst. he says he loves me and that he wants a kid and a family. im already 2 months but the problem is that his ex girl of three years AND HIM STILL LOVE EACH OTHER HE LOVES ME AND LOVES HER AND IM CONFUSED....HELP!
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I would tell him the way it is. "If you still love her why did you tell me all that and now we have a child on the way." Then tell him,"Tell me know if you want me or her because once this baby is here I don't want you to have second thoughts because I need someone to help with this baby and if your not going to I need someone who will help me and take care of my child." And if you say that is should work and if it doesn't i am sorry honey GOOD LUCK
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Just because your boyfriend is confused and unwilling to make a decision and commit to that decision doesn't mean you should be confused. If you are the one who had to lie low whenever his ex was in town, then I think the situation is quite clear. You're involved with someone who shows a pattern where he does what is good for him. He breaks up with his ex, has a relationship with you, but is unwilling to let go of his ex, in fact, gives that relationship precedence over yours when convenient for him. He says he wants a kid and a family; wait, doesn't he already have kids? If you want to continue a life filled with this kind of drama, then this is your guy. If you want someone who will commit to you and build a healthy, stable family, this guy is nowhere near ready for that kind of adult responsibility.
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Love triangle
Thing is I would be confused too. I'm thinking the best way to sort this whole mess out is to sit him down and tell him how you really feel. Get from him the answers so that you know where you stand with him for the sake of the baby.
Please don't hurt yourself by loving someone who's in love with there ex. People who do that don't deserve good people like yourself.
Best of luck and congragualation on the baby!
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