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I want to know if I can get this guy to ask me out.
Ok, so there's this guy who I text with. We have good communication he has asked me out before. But, it's this year that I like him. He had a girlfriend. And he broke up with her. And he knows I now, like him. He flirts with me, and he was going to kiss me while he had a girlfriend. But, I said no and got mad at him because he was in a relationship. Now, that he's single he doesnt talk to me about that or anything. Im the one that has to make a conversationo. And I try not texting him everyday, so he wont think Im obsessed or weird. So, I send him love notes. And he says they're cute and that I'm cute but, I think he doesnt like me because he doesnt tell me even though he knows I like him. So, I dont know what to do anymore..
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well, since hes asked you out before, and youve denied him, he probably lost some feelings.
denying guys reallllly hurts their e-go, i know, its stupid, but its true.
and i think that since he was chasing after you, and you didnt want him.. he got tired of it and thought it was hopeless and that youd never like, him but now that you like him, he can kinda redeem himself and deny/reject you AND make YOU chase him like he did with you.
hes making you work for it. hes giving you what you gave him. hes getting his e-go boost because youre the one trying so hard.
but you have 3 options:
- keep doing what youve been doing and chase after him. see if anything changes in the next months, then go from there.
- talk to him.. like straight up, tell him how you feel, no love notes or anything. just ask him why hes acting this way and if he likes you. you need to be straight forward with him to get answers, no beating around the bush.
- ignore him. people want what they cant have, and if you stop feeding his e-go, then he'll wonder why and come to you. [maybe, this isnt always sure. but it could be worth a try.] you never knoww.
good luck ! hope i helped, and my inbox is always open, xxo.
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Well you can't make someone like you like that and obviously, you don't wanna make yourself look too into him or obsessed. So I would just stop and see if he makes any effort to talk to you more.
Since he was in a relationship before and wanted to kiss you and stuff, he was probably looking for some fun right? Who knows, I don't personally know the guy so I don't know what he was thinking.
He might like you, he might not. So I'd say just become good friends with him and see where that goes. Good luck!
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well, don't make it too obvious you want him to ask you out... Just act like nothings happened and just let it come naturally, and just be his friend for a while... See if this works
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Have you tried asking him out? This is the 21st century after all. Guys don't always have to make the first move these days.
But really, if he doesn't like you in a romantic way, there's no way to force it. If you already talk a fair amount and you've expressed interest in him, there's no magic way to make him interested. Maybe he liked you at one point, but moved on, or maybe he was confused. Maybe he's still confused. Directly ask him out, and if he's not interested, there's probably nothing you can do, and if that's the case, you should move on and find someone else.
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