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love life and friendship question
Hello. I'm 20 f and I've been single for about 3 years. I don't know why. I've been told that I'm very beautiful and I think I'm a fun person. I thought that because three days I've been feeling do lonely, I could ask a good friend of mine to find me a match. Not to force anything just one date or something. But I feel kind of embarrassed. I don't have many girlfriends and maybe its just awkward because my friend is a guy but a very nice person. I just want to broaden my horizons and expand my love life and this person can help me. I just don't know how to ask him. Thank u!
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Are you at all interested in your good friend? Sometimes the perfect person is right there all along. However, if he is not someone of interest to you I do think it's a great idea to have him fix you up with someone. Dating websites are an option but can be dangerous. If your friend knows the person then at least you can feel at ease but also your friend knows your likes and dislikes so he'll be able to fix you up with someone of similar interests.
Don't be too much in a hurry. I've heard that it's when you stop looking that "mr. Right" shows up. Enjoy your single life. You are young and the sky is the limit. Travel, hang out with friends, take up some hobbies, join a sports team. . . you might find someone who enjoys the same things as you. If you are going to college or working that may be an option as well.
Hang in there.
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Hang out with your friend and just ask him about his friends. ask who his best friend is. If he asks why- just say you're not busy the next few weeks and are looking to meet some new guys and was wondering if he had anybody in mind.
Also- you don't need your friend to hook you up. you can find guys by yourself.. you're a big girl. Just go out and do the things you love to do, and you'll find a guy who has similar interests. For example- hang out at your favorite place (like a coffee shop, park, restaurant, mall, etc) and if you see a guy you like, make the first move by saying "hi" and introducing yourself. Start up a conversation by giving him a compliment and ask questions. (for example- Hi my name is sarah. I noticed your jacket, and I really love it. Where did you get it?) and just casually talk with him. Make sure to flirt too so he know's youre interested. Laugh and smile a lot. Stare into his eyes. If you're brave- ask for his number and say you'll talk to him later to catch up.
Just be yourself and the dudes will come to you :)
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If you really want to ask him i would suggest you gradually bring it up in conversation but ask him to keep it to him self so that you u know he has to be suttle about how he askes his mates.
there are also plenty of free dating websites out there that are useful and thats how i have met my knew partener and we are so happy together. If you do not wish to do this then be your self and enjoy your life while your single and sure enough cupid will find you
I really hope this helps
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