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Posted Sunday July 10 2011, 2:40 pm
I'm an 18 year old female and I have a problem connecting with people. I'll try to explain it but it's pretty complicated.
Ever since my first bf of 3 years and I broke up senior year of HS (i am now approaching my sophomore year of college), I have never let myself connect with people. Since then I have had sex with 5 people who I care nothing about and I have hooked up with like 30 guys (all in which i was drunk). I used alcohol to "get some and get gone" and I was happy doing that because I never wanted to get close with anyone again. I am a pretty screwed up person because all I do is hook up with people.
Recently this summer I hooked up with this one guy and I planned on ditching him like I do with ever...
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I don't know about "us" anymore.
Posted Sunday July 10 2011, 11:54 am
I've been dating my boyfriend since June 8th. It was perfect from the first time we met. We had good chemistry and a lot of things in common, with the same interests and quirky silly attitudes, to the love of animals and art. He and I got along so great.
In the weeks that followed, it couldn't be any better between us. He was everything I wanted, complimenting and comforting me, so loving and so romantic. He always showed me he cared and never let me down. He told me how much he loved me everyday and made so much time for me and invited me to family events. His family really enjoyed me. But somehow it all went downhill. I became punished and got my phone taken and wasn't allowed to see him but when I was off punishment he pr...
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Dont know if I should make out with him or not?
Posted Sunday July 10 2011, 3:02 am
12 Female.
Theres this boy i know i've been hanging out with him since the beginning of summer. We have hugged & all that. But today when i was laying down my sister was at the corner of the bed and he was next to her & then i was next to him. He kept holding my hand, & making me feel all loved by him. Then at times he would put his face right near mine. Then finally he kissed me... He hugged me & held my hand, he kept moving his head shaking yes & no. I told him what was wrong? & He asked me out. I didnt know what to say. A Few Minutes After he leaned again and i kissed him but he wanted to make out but i didnt so he stopped and gave me a kiss on the cheek & forehead.Not sure what i wanna do/:
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Resisting Urges of Pornography and Sexual Feelings
Posted Sunday July 10 2011, 12:00 am
I am a guy who really is trying his hardest to be a servant of God. Can you give me any tips or advice to resisting the urges of pornography and sexual feelings towards girls(Please don't answer with masterbation)?
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sexual activity... he wants me to but i don't think i am ready
Posted Saturday July 9 2011, 11:40 pm
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do?
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what is it called when this happens?
Posted Saturday July 9 2011, 10:40 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl and a lot of times this happens. I'll be thinking of something then someone else will say that or for example I'll be watching t.v. Then I'll think of a movie like twilight then it will be on in like 20 minutes or I'll be thinking of something someone usually says to me but hasn't in a while then they'll text me and be like "oh I haven't said that in a while." if you no what I mean, I kind of think of something and then it happens, if that makes sense. Is there a name or something for this?
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Am I too demanding or is he just horrible at keeping promises?
Posted Saturday July 9 2011, 8:29 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we are both in college.
Please hear me out, but keep in mind that this is my probably-heavily-biased side of the story.
We have a lot in common, but our differences drive me insane at times. For example, he's a night owl and I'm a day person, up at the crack of dawn. I like having plans and a set schedule (maybe to an extreme; I am always planning out my future class schedules and what classes I will take which term to make sure I have a good plan). He, on the other hand, is a last-minute-plans kind of guy.
He is also a last-minute-cancellation kind of guy. Which, when tied into his sleeping habits, really ticks me off. Because he'll say thing...
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How should I handle this situation?
Posted Saturday July 9 2011, 4:12 pm
So I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 6 months and he is amazing. A really sweet, genuine person and very considerate towards everyone. That's also how I am so we match well.
My boyfriend has this friend, Mia, who is a girl that he's known for almost two years now. She is dating one of his childhood friends, Miguel. My boyfriend met the girl when his friend brought her around as his girlfriend, so he's only known her as his best friends girl. He tells me that she is also one of his best friends. This girl is fun, outgoing, nice, etc. and I've become friends with her also, but the problem is that I think my boyfriend is a little too attached to her. The reason I say this is because (and I've noticed this over ti...
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Too attached.
Posted Saturday July 9 2011, 3:57 pm
I'm sorry, I've posted my love life questions over and over again but I don't know what to do. I just need help.
My boyfriend used to be so sweet to me. He used to shower me with compliments and make me feel so happy and so loved. He is the first guy that I've felt strongly for in a long time. We get along so great but lately our relationship has been on a rough track. He ignored me all day Thursday and I got very worried. Long story short he was out drinking and got mad at me when I was only concerned. So today I really was depressed. He ignored my call when we were supposed to make plans to see each other today. He's changed so much since when we first started dating. He's very short and blunt with me and he doesn't complim...
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Im not stupid...
Posted Friday July 8 2011, 8:36 pm
My boyfriend of 1 and half years was confused about what he wanted, and all he kept saying was "Im confused, i love you and thats why we cant be together :/" No, not a long distance relationship, No,both our families know and are completely okay, he just doesnt want me and doesnt know how to end it basically right? im not an idiot, im just wondering. thanks. =/
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First argument as a couple... sigh
Posted Friday July 8 2011, 12:44 pm
Yesterday I did not talk to my boyfriend at all. He stopped answering me and I was getting worried. Finally after so many hours of trying not to contact him too much, I asked his friend if he knew where he was and he said no but offered to call. So his friend called and my boyfriend answered right away, saying that he was out for drinks and he had his phone off for a long time. I was very upset. I was upset my boyfriend didn't tell me, even if his phone was low on battery and he had it off all day. It would've taken five seconds to tell me he was busy so I wouldn't worry all day. So I texted him and told him that he should've told me what was going on so I wouldn't have to worry because he knows I worry a lot. He said "sorry" and ...
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How to not be lonely
Posted Friday July 8 2011, 2:19 am
I'm a 21 year old male, and people don't seem to like me. I have some friends who if I really bother will do things with me, but I am still really insecure about whether or not they really want to be around me.
This is mostly about dating however, I'm having trouble meeting people. I tried online dating, but I find most people on there to be incredibly broken in some way, no offense but I'm not interested in a drug addict or someone who is my age with 3 children.
I have really worked to get in good shape, and have lost over 50 pounds and think I'm in good shape now. I'm in the last year of schooling for a great job in the medical profession. I'm responsible, have my own place which I pay for, and have a g...
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It's not him, it's not us, it's me. I need to save my relationship. (long)
Posted Friday July 8 2011, 1:31 am
I don't know what else to do, or who else to turn to.. not that I've turned to anybody because I'm afraid talking about it is going to make it worse.
I've been with my boyfriend for six months, and I love him so much. He loves me just as much... if not, then more. He tells me he's in love with me and I'm the most important person in the world to him. He tells me I'm the reason why he's going to try to get into college. And I'm so glad I could do this much for him. I've always loved hearing this, us making scenarios about our future together like getting married and everything. We have legit plans to go to school near each other so it won't be too much of a long distance relationship.
I have never once doubted...
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Boyfriend problems, I don't know how to help him
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 10:08 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We were living together for a month in New York before he decided to move down to Puerto Rico to be with his grandma. I went down with him, because I found out I was pregnant. While we were living there, I miscarried the baby. He was there for me and helped me in any way he could. After about a month of living in Puerto Rico, I decided to come home to New York. We promised we would talk every night on the phone, and do everything we could to make this relationship last until I came back down there. He doesn't want to come back to New York because he hates it here. Lately though, he's been getting annoyed with me I think. I tell him that I love him and miss him every time we talk and he tel...
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leaving it in there
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 6:42 pm
i was wondering if it is ok to leave my dildo in my vagina for a long time ? like would it hurt me if i left it in there while i slept? i just like having it in there it is about 2inches wide at the most....thanks for the help!
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is my boyfriend hinting me to getting me pregnant?
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 6:24 pm
hi, i'm 34 and my boyfriend is 47. we love each other and have been dating for a year. he always asks me if he could come inside me during sex and and recently he's been texting me saying he wants to come in me. we have a long distance relationship and but we'll be living together soon. we're happy. we always speak on the phone and text each other everyday. just wondering, is he hinting me to get pregnant or am i thinking too much. thanks so much.
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he's been acting weird to me
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 3:34 pm
My boyfriend's been acting weird to me lately. He does have multiple personality disorder but it never really effected us negatively. His case of this disorder does not even seem that bad, he just changes his mind about certain things a lot. But one thing I am surely certain about is that he loves me. Not only does he tell me, but every little thing he does shows me he loves me. But lately he's been acting weird. We'll text for about an hour or even shorter and then he'll just stop answering me. And to be honest he really doesn't do much. He barely gets out of the house, and if he does it's only for a short errand for his parents or to come see me. Usually he's playing video games all day or just laying around. Last night he stopped texting...
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What Happens When Your Period Ends?
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 12:38 pm
What Happens When Your Period Ends In The 50s?
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How Do I Get Him To Notice Me? :'(
Posted Thursday July 7 2011, 4:46 am
Okay so this guy is 17 and I'm 14. I really like him a lot and we kinda talk to each other but I'm not sure he really notices me. He's cute, funny, great personality, fun to be with, and very sweet. I only get to see him twice a week and when i do see him I don't know if he really wants anything to do with me. I just want him to talk to me and feel the same way as I feel about him. I might be young but i know for a fact that I'm in love with him. Please can someone help me solve my love problem!?!? :'(
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Should I still be friends with my ex or just leave her alone completely
Posted Wednesday July 6 2011, 11:44 pm
Me and my ex gf were in a long distance relationship for like 5 months and we decided that it was to hard to keep a long distance relationship at our age, were only 17 and couldn't see each other in person, so like less than a week after we broke up she had sex with a another boy and she knew i wanted us to loose our virginity together but i guess she couldn't wait. so I started to think that she was talking to this boy for the longest and was secretly cheating on me, but i don't know for sure,but were just friends right now and she texts me everyday, so should i just ignore her and leave her alone or just be her friend cause i don't think i'll get back with her any time soon.
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