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sexual activity... he wants me to but i don't think i am ready
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do?
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If you tell him that you are not ready and he does not understand and/or gets angry with you then I think you need to find you a new boy-friend because I am 15 too and I would never take that from any boy, and neither should you.
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He's a typical horny boy and he'll try anything to get sex. If you really want to keep him around but keep your virginity, try giving him a hand job. He'll get an orgasm without you giving him sex. Most guys are happy when they don't have to do things on their own. If he's not happy with that, you may need to find a new boyfriend. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Dont feel embarrassed let him know that you are not ready and if he respects you he will be okay with that... if he doesnt then he needs to go... Your virginity is one thing that you can never get back once it is gone... dont waste it... save it for that right moment when you are ready... who cares if he is ready you both hae to be and if youre not thats okay... good luck and when it is time remember use protection :)
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