Member Since: July 15, 2011
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Last Update: July 15, 2011
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It has been hurting for weeks and I was constipated for a long time. Then when I tried to poop it hurts, stings and starts bleeding. It feels like theres a cut in my butt, but I don't think so. When I wipe its blood. It hurts really bad. If I go to the doctor will they have to look in my butt? I dont want a doctor looking in my butt. I tried taking a laxative and that didnt work and I tried green tea and that didnt work. It hurts. I do drink water (link)
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Well...don't worry about not wanting a doctor to look in your butt...that's the least of you worries you need to get checked out it could be serious...doctors are trained professionals and will try there best to anything to help you medically.
Justagirl16 :)
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I have two small tares in my vaginal lining just above the opening to my vagina, I noticed some irriatation after having sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago, but over the last week the pain has gotten worse,and unbearable and it burns when I urinate, I decided to get a mirror and check down there and found the two tares... I have no medical insurance so going to the doctors is out.. Is there anyone who can tell me what I can use to heal the tares and to stop the pain, I am at wits end please help (link)
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Do any thing that you can to get to a doctor as soon as you can, raise up mpney or something because this is serious, if you ever plan on having kidsthen you need to get this checked out.
Justagirl16 :)
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I had the weirdest dream about my boyfriend John last night. He has told me he wants to marry me but I've been cautious about believing it. However, I've had a weird series of dreams lately.
Last night I had a dream I was wearing a light yellow dress in front of a mirror, and I walked out into the hallways of his house, and out into the courtyard. His parents smiled at me and his mom kissed my cheek and was squealing excitedly saying how pretty I look and such, and my boyfriend came over and he took my hands and sat me down next to him. His little sister is two and she climbed up into my lap and pointed to the baby that appeared in my boyfriend's arms. His parents started taking pictures of us and after that my boyfriend took me into this really fancy decorated room that looked like a hotel and he smiled and kissed me and told me that he's so happy that this day is all about us and he turned on the tv and hopped on the bed and I changed out of my dress into pajamas and cuddled up next to him, and my mom came in with her boss and they were both crying and congratulating us with big grins and gave me bouquets of white roses and asked where we were going for our special night, and they gave me a little blue book and told me to fill it up with all of the memories and good moments with my boyfriend. Then the dream ended. It was really weird.
I also had a dream once, where I was in a jewelry store. It was a blurry dream, and I was standing over a glowing glass case full of rings and John kissed my head and slipped a ring on my finger but took it off and looked at another.
Could it be my mind just fantasizing or could these dreams really mean something? (link)
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Maybe the dreams mean something, if you really love this guy and he really loves you then, maybe the dreams will come true.
Justagirl15 :)
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Okay, so my parents are insanely overprotective and it's driving me nuts. My mom literally won't let me do anything. She gives me no freedom. I'm 14 and she still won't let me have a facebook even though EVERYONE I know has one, she won't let me go shopping with friends, see movies with friends, or walk or bike anywhere without her. It's embarrassing when my friends ask me to do something fun and I have to explain that my mom won't let me do it. I live in a wealthy, safe neighborhood where nothing ever happens. I'm so sick of following her rules and don't see how I can handle another four years before college with her. Also, her overprotectiveness is backfiring. It's making me rebellious. Little does she know I have ridden bikes all over town with a friend, seen a movie at a mall with a friend, created a facebook and done countless other things she would never allow me to do. I'm not ashamed of any of these things, in fact those times of freedom were the most fun i've ever had. They would be more fun, however, if I didn't have the fear of being caught and killed. How can I get my mom to be less overprotective? I've sat down and talked to her about it, told her everyone gets freedom, and nothing will change her! I'm going insane! Help!
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Try to work something out between you and your mom like maybe chores for freedom. And when you do go out aasur her that you are safe, and tell her that you'll text her every hour to let her know that you are fine. basically what i am saying is you have to comprimise.
Justagirl16 :)
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Where could I work as a thirteen year old boy? (link)
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No where really i dont think so any way. But if you have any close friends that work in a restraunt then maybe they can get you a job. If not that then you can do yard work for neighbors and things like that maybe be a volunteer. But the yard work for neighbors is a more promising option.
Justagirl15 :)
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and were nearly 16, and he wants to do sexual stuff, but i feel that im not ready. i do want him to poke me and eat me out and stuff, but i feel embarrassed. what should i do? (link)
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If you tell him that you are not ready and he does not understand and/or gets angry with you then I think you need to find you a new boy-friend because I am 15 too and I would never take that from any boy, and neither should you.
Justagirl15 :)
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Me n him have been together for 5 months now, he told me about his kid who is 8years but now when I call him at night there is a baby cry or he doesn't take my calls at night. He keep his promises and he hardly tells me how much he loves me or even say I love you. Calling oh shame too bad for he hardly calls. I love him and really wanna be with but I think I'm wasting my time. What should I do? How do I talk to him about these? Plz help (link)
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You think he does'nt love you.....?
Well if you have to think of whether someone loves you or not then the answer is no. You should know that they love you automatically they should tell you all of the time, and you should be able to see it in their eyes, hear it in theirvoice, and feel it in their touch.If he is lying to you and it's not eating him up inside to tell you the truth then he does not love you. You can do better than him, lay it out to him tell him that you won't take anymore of his secrecy crap... leave him or stay and try to understand him, it really all depends on if YOU love HIM, because if you do then it wont be so easy.
Justagirl16 :)
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what should i do... my cousin keeps slapping me in the forhead and it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO annoying... i know he's kidding but i keep telling him to stop and he WONT! my gosh! i wanna kill him, i swear to God.! (link)
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Stay away from him... if he can't respect you and the way that you want to be treated then he does'nt deserve to hang around you. If that does not work then slap him back randomly when he is not thinking about it and let him see how it feels, just keep slapping him like he does to you.
Justagirl16 :)
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So my boyfriend was being mean to me today and I asked him why. He told me that he had a very visual dream about me. My guess was that I was having sex with another guy... Since that's all I knew and he didn't want to get into descriptions about it since he didn't want to think about it. So I was trying to hug him and I told him, "it was just a dream.. And I'm here with you." And he pushed me away and told me not to touch him or anything. He's usually not like that, and I said that as well.. And his response was, "well this was one of the clearest dreams I've ever had. It scarred me. I remember everything including the sounds... I can't see you the same.
So for the rest of the day, he wouldn't hug me, kiss me, and he didn't seem very happy to hold my hand. So what am I supposed to do? He didn't want to talk about it. He won't let me touch him. So do I just give him some space to get over it?? And do you think he had that dream because he has some sort of insecurities?? (link)
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No matter what...remember that this is not your fault. His minnd must have been thinking something along those lines for him to dream it. Yes... maybe you should give him some space because I seee that you don't want to break up with him just call him regularly and text too. Reming him that he is the one you love every day. Convince him you want no one else but him,
Justagirl16 :)
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i just want to know what can be the most unpainful way to commit suicide , I know some of u will try to convince me not to do it … but i’m afraid a won’t change my mind .my life right know is a living hell I really can’t bare it anymore , the thing is that I have a mom who’s driving me mad even though I’m really sensible and a kind of mature no drugs no drinking and certainly no smoking cause I’m really interested in sport , school report aren’t bad at all I don’t know why I have to stand all these things , I’v been really patient but it’s just getting worst I’v never thought I’d end up like this …. However I just want some answers because I can’t afford a gun or anything like that so… by the way I’m 17 years old ps: sorry for my bad English (link)
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Don't do it...please !!
Try not to think about the bad things that happen in your life, think about the good things, I am sure that something good has happened to you. but, if nothing comes to mind try to find another answer to your problems, you only have one life to live, do you really want to waste it on someone else.
Try to talk to your mom, and if that does not work out go and live with another relative or a friend, anyone just dont kill your self, your life is too precious.
Justagirl15 :)
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