Member Since: July 15, 2011 Answers: 5 Last Update: July 15, 2011 Visitors: 716
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Im about to enter middle school and im stressed out! any advice? (link)
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remember one thing for middle school and highschool. EVERYBODY IS NERVOUS!!! your not alone. and be yourself. dont try to fit in. be weird and a little not like everybody else is what i actually think is cool and there will always be a group of people who think that. maybe not at first but probably by the time you start high school, you will have a group of friends, and you wont have to worry about fitting in as much and you will be your own person. dont forget. EVERYBODY IS NERVOUS. i cried before i left for the bus on my first day of middle school. but dont worry. EVERYBODY IS NERVOUS.
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So i'm 14 and i have a boyfriend of 4 months now. we've made out, hes seen and touched my boobs. yesterday, we were curious as to how OTHER things feel. so i like stroked his penis and we dry humped with clothes on... we didn't wanna do it because we're horny little teens, maybe a little but it was mostly because of curiosity.I WILL NEVER DO A blowjob AND I AM CONTENT ON SEX AFTER MARRIAGE. we agreed these things will never happen again. what we normally do is just hold hands and kiss :) but i feel guilty about my actions yesterday. am i a slut? (link)
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your not a slut at all! your a teenage girl. both teen boys and teen girls are curious. you just have to be careful with that curiosity. you will most likely be put in more situations like this. and it will be hard to say no but you need to. im very proud that you dont want sex until marriage. my girlfriend and i have been going out for a year and havent even kissed yet (overprotective mother) but the physical stuff isnt all that important. i think you have to right idea of what a relationship is about. you just got caught up in curiosity. but your not a slut.
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I love smoking weed ..it makes me feel elated..n makes my brain feel to be the smartest guy ever...
i feel baked right now after a long time....but besides my red eyes and cotton mouth...i feel like my heart rate has also risen...is this paranoia or a natural feeling people are ashmed of admitting? (link)
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people are going to look down on you for smoking weed. and life will not be a breeze because of it. you may feel great. but others will not look up to you and the wrong crowd will want to be with you. i cant get you to stop. im just a guy over the internet. i just pray that you will. it would make life so much better. and you wont have questions about it if you dont do it! give it a second thought. think about the rest of your life. how do you want it to be? difficult? deadly? everybody looking down on you?
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Okay, so my parents are insanely overprotective and it's driving me nuts. My mom literally won't let me do anything. She gives me no freedom. I'm 14 and she still won't let me have a facebook even though EVERYONE I know has one, she won't let me go shopping with friends, see movies with friends, or walk or bike anywhere without her. It's embarrassing when my friends ask me to do something fun and I have to explain that my mom won't let me do it. I live in a wealthy, safe neighborhood where nothing ever happens. I'm so sick of following her rules and don't see how I can handle another four years before college with her. Also, her overprotectiveness is backfiring. It's making me rebellious. Little does she know I have ridden bikes all over town with a friend, seen a movie at a mall with a friend, created a facebook and done countless other things she would never allow me to do. I'm not ashamed of any of these things, in fact those times of freedom were the most fun i've ever had. They would be more fun, however, if I didn't have the fear of being caught and killed. How can I get my mom to be less overprotective? I've sat down and talked to her about it, told her everyone gets freedom, and nothing will change her! I'm going insane! Help!
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i think your right in being a little rebellious. Teens need to live a little. but please please please do not do anything stupid like smoke, drink, have sex. please. your mom just knows the dangers there are out there. shes just trying to keep you safe. i know its tough. i really do. im going to assume that your mom messed up a few times at your age. she doesnt want that to happen to you. try to handle it for now. have talks with her every now and then. be careful being rebellious. if she finds out, it will make everything worse. and like i said, please please do not do anything too stupid.
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i lied to a friend about some messages that were sent to me about him by his friends.they werent anything but negativity.was it bad me for prevent him from seeing what people had to say about him?..because apparently,now im the BAD GUY. (link)
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Lying does make you partly the bad guy. its just the truth. i understand that you were trying to keep your friend from feeling bad. but maybe if your friend saw those things, your friend might try to improve his/her personality. maybe it could have helped in the long run. your in a tough situation. you did a bad thing but for a good cause. i would say, just take the blame. let the situation blow over. and get back to your happy life.
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