So i'm 14 and i have a boyfriend of 4 months now. we've made out, hes seen and touched my boobs. yesterday, we were curious as to how OTHER things feel. so i like stroked his penis and we dry humped with clothes on... we didn't wanna do it because we're horny little teens, maybe a little but it was mostly because of curiosity.I WILL NEVER DO A blowjob AND I AM CONTENT ON SEX AFTER MARRIAGE. we agreed these things will never happen again. what we normally do is just hold hands and kiss :) but i feel guilty about my actions yesterday. am i a slut?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ddavis014 answered Friday July 15 2011, 11:40 pm: your not a slut at all! your a teenage girl. both teen boys and teen girls are curious. you just have to be careful with that curiosity. you will most likely be put in more situations like this. and it will be hard to say no but you need to. im very proud that you dont want sex until marriage. my girlfriend and i have been going out for a year and havent even kissed yet (overprotective mother) but the physical stuff isnt all that important. i think you have to right idea of what a relationship is about. you just got caught up in curiosity. but your not a slut. [ ddavis014's advice column | Ask ddavis014 A Question ]
KillaCaliBaby answered Wednesday July 13 2011, 3:38 am: Oh geez, sweetie you're not a slut ! Noo you're not a slut ! He's your boyfriend of 4 months, a slut is someone who does more extreme sexual things with multiple people. Honey what you did was pure cusriosity and innocence. Its okay, you're not a slut (: [ KillaCaliBaby's advice column | Ask KillaCaliBaby A Question ]
HollaGirl answered Monday July 11 2011, 11:14 pm: You are definatly not a slut! and dont feel guilty what you did was perfectly fine and normal for a girl your age to do. but trust me your not a slut at all :) [ HollaGirl's advice column | Ask HollaGirl A Question ]
romeoandrebecca answered Monday July 11 2011, 10:46 pm: Don't feel guilty. You are not a slut if you've only done this type of stuff once... plus, it didn't really count as sex, because he didn't go inside of you. You were just curious but as long as you two talked about it and agreed it'd never happen again, you two are fine. [ romeoandrebecca's advice column | Ask romeoandrebecca A Question ]
kristamikele answered Monday July 11 2011, 10:45 pm: You are definately NOT a slut. You are a person who has high moral standards when it comes to sex, so how can you be anything close to a slut? I think waiting for sex is a very wise decision...the only thing...sometimes young people start off touching eachother with no plans on having sex, and the next thing you know, they are caught up in the moment and having intercourse. You should not feel guilty about yesterday, just make it a learning experience that curiousity is not a good enough reason to fool around. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
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