Me n him have been together for 5 months now, he told me about his kid who is 8years but now when I call him at night there is a baby cry or he doesn't take my calls at night. He keep his promises and he hardly tells me how much he loves me or even say I love you. Calling oh shame too bad for he hardly calls. I love him and really wanna be with but I think I'm wasting my time. What should I do? How do I talk to him about these? Plz help
Well if you have to think of whether someone loves you or not then the answer is no. You should know that they love you automatically they should tell you all of the time, and you should be able to see it in their eyes, hear it in theirvoice, and feel it in their touch.If he is lying to you and it's not eating him up inside to tell you the truth then he does not love you. You can do better than him, lay it out to him tell him that you won't take anymore of his secrecy crap... leave him or stay and try to understand him, it really all depends on if YOU love HIM, because if you do then it wont be so easy.
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cocomac101 answered Friday July 15 2011, 6:14 am: you don't need a guy who can't be trusted. I'm thinking you can do way better, get out there and find someone new without a family who you can trust. If at 18 your getting tied down with a man like that AND his fake or real kids you seriously dont need it. Go find your self a nice and truthful guy, chuck him and go and have fun :) you can do better [ cocomac101's advice column | Ask cocomac101 A Question ]
Xui answered Tuesday July 12 2011, 3:57 pm: I agree with the user below me, You may be wasting your time.
This guy has a son and when you call you hear a baby crying, Sort of makes you think he may have more than one child and a family you don't know about. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
YoungMommy answered Tuesday July 12 2011, 1:49 pm: It sounds to me like he may have a family. If he told you about his 8yr old son and you hear a crying baby he may also have a baby and maybe he doesnt take your calls because he is with his girlfriend or wife sit down with him and ask him whats going on if he does have a family, leave him [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
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