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He had a bad dream about me and he's acting different
18/f
So my boyfriend was being mean to me today and I asked him why. He told me that he had a very visual dream about me. My guess was that I was having sex with another guy... Since that's all I knew and he didn't want to get into descriptions about it since he didn't want to think about it. So I was trying to hug him and I told him, "it was just a dream.. And I'm here with you." And he pushed me away and told me not to touch him or anything. He's usually not like that, and I said that as well.. And his response was, "well this was one of the clearest dreams I've ever had. It scarred me. I remember everything including the sounds... I can't see you the same.
So for the rest of the day, he wouldn't hug me, kiss me, and he didn't seem very happy to hold my hand. So what am I supposed to do? He didn't want to talk about it. He won't let me touch him. So do I just give him some space to get over it?? And do you think he had that dream because he has some sort of insecurities??
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No matter what...remember that this is not your fault. His minnd must have been thinking something along those lines for him to dream it. Yes... maybe you should give him some space because I seee that you don't want to break up with him just call him regularly and text too. Reming him that he is the one you love every day. Convince him you want no one else but him,
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Just give him some space. Obviously dreams have a big impact on us, no matter if it would really happen in real life or not.
When you guys part, text him like 'baby, i know your upset, but it was only in your mind. I only want to be with you. Call me tomorrow <3' or something along those lines.
You didnt do anything wrong, remember that. If he carries this on for too long, then you need to have a conversation about it. Its not your fault, he needs to move on, and yall need to discuss how to do that if it comes to it.
Good luck!
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Sometimes we just have scary dreams... I had the same problem as your boyfriend once... I was pregnant when I had this dream though. In my dream my husband cut open my belly and took my baby.. so when I woke up he tried to comfort me but I was afraid... its not easy to be comforted by the bad guy... I knew he wasnt going to do that but the dream freaked me out... but I just got over it.. it took about two days before it was back to normal but he was there and showed me he wasnt going to hurt me and he loved me... he will be okay dont worry
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