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Resisting Urges of Pornography and Sexual Feelings
I am a guy who really is trying his hardest to be a servant of God. Can you give me any tips or advice to resisting the urges of pornography and sexual feelings towards girls(Please don't answer with masterbation)?
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It is only inappropriate to have sexual feelings towards women while serving god if you become a Catholic Priest or join a religious order that forbids it. So as to the question of sexual feelings towards girls unless you plan on becoming a Priest or joining an order that forbids it I do not believe there is anything wrong with this issue. You can have these thoughts and even have sexual relations up until you take your vows of chastity. You might want to ask your clergyman to enlighten you more on this question as my answer is most definitely a layman's answer.
As to pornography: That is a battle I believe we all face in one form or another. I read once that exercise is a good way to work off sexual energy brought on by pornography and other sexual stimulation. It is unfortunate but in one form or another some types of pornography are all around us; from the way things are advertised to television plots to hard core pornography.
The good thing about pornography is we can pick and choose what we read and view. We do not have to expose are selves to it voluntarily.
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Well I am not a guy and I have never had a problem like this so I asked a friend of mine and he said that when he gets dirty thoughts in his head like this he trys to think of something very unattractive or gross (like his grandma haha.. not naked or anything) but her thinks of stuff like that and it gets his mind off the dirty thoughts :) hope it helps good luck
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