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he's been acting weird to me
My boyfriend's been acting weird to me lately. He does have multiple personality disorder but it never really effected us negatively. His case of this disorder does not even seem that bad, he just changes his mind about certain things a lot. But one thing I am surely certain about is that he loves me. Not only does he tell me, but every little thing he does shows me he loves me. But lately he's been acting weird. We'll text for about an hour or even shorter and then he'll just stop answering me. And to be honest he really doesn't do much. He barely gets out of the house, and if he does it's only for a short errand for his parents or to come see me. Usually he's playing video games all day or just laying around. Last night he stopped texting and didn't answer my calls but this morning he told me he went to bed early. He usually always tells me goodnight and I thought that was weird but brushed it off. Today I've been feeling depressed and I need someone to talk to and he's always there and he's the only one that I go to for my problems. I stopped texting him for a while but told him to call me when he's not busy. I get insecure at times but I have a full trust in him, even though I'm a little paranoid something is going wrong
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My dad has bipolar, and he was always nice while dating my mom, (my mom says, she does NOT lie). But when they were married, it went downhill. He slept most of their marraige, or looked at porn, etc. This is my experience with a bipolar person today. He is sleeping right now as I type. I don't want to be the reason you broke up, but I feel it's worth telling people since it affects my life SO much.
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This is what can happen with someone who has a profound mental illness. They can shift behavior on a dime. You will just have to be patient with it and talk about it when you guys meet.
The cruel thing that he is dealing with is that the brain doesn't stop developing until about age 25. So he not only has a mental illness, his brain is still in only a partially grown state, which has complications of its own.
But what I wonder is why did you seek a guy with a mental illness as a mate? Does your father have a history of mental illness or drug or alcohol addiction, for example?
Anyway, I hope this all works out for the best. But you are going to have to have an easygoing "roll with the changes" attitude in a situation such as this. Good luck to both of you.
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maybe you should talk to him about this... and tell him everything that is going on!
tell him how you feel, maybe go out to dinner or something, and just talk to him. see what's up!
maybe it's nothing, something you thought that was a big deal. that happened MANY times to me and then i just talked to him and he told me everything and i felt way better after talking to him thinking "why was i freaking out so much."
and if it is that he doesn't like you... (which i hope that's not the case) you will be hurt but you will get over him. that's not your whole life, you have way more to life then that!
there was this quote i found from someone:
"You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore"
BUT lets hope that's not the case!(:
i hope everything goes well, wish you luck!
if you have any questions just ask!(:
melissa!
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