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Im not stupid...
My boyfriend of 1 and half years was confused about what he wanted, and all he kept saying was "Im confused, i love you and thats why we cant be together :/" No, not a long distance relationship, No,both our families know and are completely okay, he just doesnt want me and doesnt know how to end it basically right? im not an idiot, im just wondering. thanks. =/
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first of all if you love somebody then you shouldn't be confused about whether you should be with them i mean like you said, you two are completely okay i think this guy is hinting you that he wants to break up with you because he probably doesn't have the heart to and expects you to do it, and he did tell you that "we can't be together" so don't even bother wasting your time move on honey you deserve better
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I've been in similar situations, and I've found that the best thing to do is wait it out. He probably needs a little time to figure out what he wants, if what he wants is you, he'll tell you. Otherwise, you're better off just moving on. After a year and a half I don't believe that he just simply "doesn't want you" but maybe just can't handle the strong feelings he has and needs to sort them out. Give him some time and if he doesn't contact you, contact him and let him know that you still care about him but you can't just sit around and wait for a straight answer. Tell him to be honest with you and suggest ways to better your relationship for the both of you! Best of luck :)
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Sounds to me like he's wondering what else is out there. (Sorry to be so blunt.)
It means, he loves you, but hes bored with his life and wonders if maybe thats cause of you. Maybe he's even depressed. Hes considering exploring his options but dosent want to lose you, if he can't find better. Plus he loves you.
That'd be my assessment. I could be wrong. But frankly, if he's "confused" or "unsure" about you after being together for a year and a half, then you can do better.
Tell him you don't want to be with someone confused. That you know what you want and you want someone who knows what they want.
Most likely he'll beg you to stay. Your choice as to what to do. Good luck sweetie.
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Sounds to me that your boyfriend may be confused about his sexuality, This usually defines the male term of "Confused". Voice is right, Men don't generally use that term.
There are many more men out there just try and find a man that knows and wants to be with a Girl.
Good luck!
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Men don't use terms like "I'm confused" when it comes to relationships unless they are doing a song and dance because something else is going on. I would guess he's gay or, at the very least, bisexual.
Listen, here is another piece of advice: when your gut is telling you something ain't right it ain't right and you need to bail on whatever situation is causing you that feeling. So boot Mr. In the Closet and go find someone who does know what he wants.
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