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One Night Stand: Cant stop thinking about


Posted Friday June 27 2014, 2:19 am

19/f
So I started Uni this year and (very out of character for me) I had a one night stand at the very beginning after my first ever time of going to a club.

Thing is, a month later I then got into a relationship, and have been in this relationship ever since.

I love my bf a lot and we are both very faithful/committed etc. But I cant stop thinking about my one night stand.
Like I cant stop checking his Twitter feed-feeling butterflies if I happen to pass him in the corridor or even just seeing his friends gets me into a hot sweat.

I've since learnt that obviously the one night stand doesn't care about me at all-and tbh I don't care that he doesn't care. I did ask him out of said n...

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is it safe to be on the shot and the pill .-.


Posted Friday June 27 2014, 1:13 am

I'm a sophomore in highschool and a vegetarian and the only one in my family who is. So I don't necessarily eat the way I should. I do eat a lot though. I haven't grown or gained any weight since about 7th grade I've been the same. My doctor said I'm a bit underweight for my height but not too much that's its unhealthy. I do lots of sports and activities but id get light headed easily. So my doctor said my iron levels were low so he gave me prenatal pills in 7th grade I quit them because they were too big and nasty. Also 7,8 and 9th grade I would get really bad menstrual craps so bad id puke from pain. Finally this past beginning of June I got the birth control shot only to stop the pain I was getting. (I'm not sexually active or plan to be...

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do I wait ? or go for it


Posted Friday June 27 2014, 12:41 am

So I'm a sophomore now in highschool and my WHOLE freshman year I did a long distance with a guy who's basically across the country. There were other guys at my school who wanted to go out with but I stayed faithful and told them I have a boyfriend. I got teased a lot because how now days there's so many catfish scams. Anyways we planned for him to visit this summer but it didn't happen because his parents wanted him to stay with us because they trust my family but my family said no. Then in May I asked for a break because I finally realized that we'll never be together and I asked for a break because it seemed the easiest way to break up without hurting each other. But then all of June we talked as if we were still together but we werent o...

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Ist possible that I am pregnant?


Posted Friday June 27 2014, 12:36 am

I am 18 year old lady, I had sex for the first time and I used a condom, but that same day my periods started and they were normal, but 3 days later, I experience running tummy which lasted for 2 days, now I have stomach cramps, bubbling from my stomach to my mouth, chest and back pain. Am I pregnant or I am just exaggerating?

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can sperm travel through clothes?


Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 9:37 pm

I was with this guy and we were having dry sex. he wasn't wearing any clothes and i was wearing leggings and underwear. during this he came and i was wet from myself. could this cause any problems? I was supposed to get my period yesterday but still havent.

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How to get him to unblock me?


Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 7:24 pm

It's been almost two weeks since he told me that it's over. and no matter how he explains, I still have questions, everyday, in my head. like, does he still love me the way he used to? how long should I wait? will I even get to talk to him again? will he talk to me again? what I really want, is for him to love me again like we used to. I miss everything, and I just took it for granted. I wanna see how he's doing, I wanna know when will he talk to me again? what is he really doing?

okay, what really happened. at the beginning of the month, we had a fight at night. ended in tears. I was frustrated with him not doing anything with his life and us not going out and having fun like young people do. he's frustrated that I was alwa...

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Past relationship affecting current one


Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 11:50 am

A long time ago I was hurt very badly by someone who cheated on me. It took me a decade to recover from this and unfortunately it involved substance abuse (some illegal, some not) and a near death experience as a result. I also had to get tested for various STDs which was also very unpleasant and stressful.

I have moved on, and have found myself with a new man who I am very happy with. We live quite far apart which means that currently we only see each other at weekends and this doesn't allow our relationship to grow. A few weeks ago we discussed it and decided to move in together. During this discussion, one of the (many) reasons he gave for living together was that we only get to have physical relations on the weekends whi...

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Boyfriend stopped trying


Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 10:18 am

My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old and have been dating for 3 years. I feel as if he "jokes around" way too much by grabbing my "lady parts" per se in public and I tell him to stop and he doesn't. I feel like the only time he tries to be romantic or nice is when he's trying to get it in with me and I can tell it isn't genuine. He stopped doing alot of the cute date things he used to do and I he gets mad when I don't give him sex. It's so frustrating. I do love him but he gets mad because we only have sex on "my terms". But it's hard to get turned on to him when I feel like a giant meatsack being grabbed all of the time. I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and says things like "I can't believe...

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YouTube


Posted Thursday June 26 2014, 6:07 am

Hi. I want to post acting videos on YouTube I have scripts from different movies and I want to act them out. But none of my friends are really interested in acting. I know that I'm good at acting I'm 100% sure of it. So should I act out the whole script by myself and post that on YouTube?

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can I get pregnant?


Posted Wednesday June 25 2014, 11:44 pm

I've been taking trigestral for over a year now but at the end of last year I kind of stopped but I'm back on it now I was wondering how long does it take to work and I've the pill was still in my system? and I'm taking the. Pill now but I want to know if I can get pregnant okay my period was on the 10th I started taking the pills on the 13th and on the 21st I had sex wich I ovulate apparently till 25th I was wondering if I mite be pregnant now?or are the pills still in my system from last year I heard it takes awhile to flush out of my body is this true?

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I want to become a exchange student, how do I do it?


Posted Wednesday June 25 2014, 4:43 pm

I am Canadian and I want to become a exchange student. I want to go to either 1) United States (preferably L.A., New York, Boston) 2)Europe (England, perhaps France) 3) Australia. I want to go for maybe a whole school year. My parents suggest I go to the school guidance counselor to ask what places they recommend and how it works as soon as school starts which I will. Though what is the process of becoming a exchange student, the criteria needed? are the hosting families thoroughly checked out? also is it likely I get to choose where I want to go? I do a lot of research and I don't know if their is many who will send me from canada to the United States. The US is my first option, which companies send me to US? thanks

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atheists


Posted Wednesday June 25 2014, 2:26 pm

I never talk about my beliefs with anyone unless I absolutely know for sure they agree with it. But it seems that once an atheist meets my eye, he'll say,“do you believe in God?" And when I'm like yeah, why? He will attack me saying how I'm destroying his rights and safety. Today I decided to see where these atheists come from, figuring that there has to be some reason that when an atheist wa in my class, she spent the entire year saying about how there isn't a God and it's ridiculous. So, I found some laws ARE stealing atheists rights. But if they don't like that, then they should go out and protest, rather then sit around insulting people. And while I could see how these laws upset them, it's not my fault. I'm not on government, a...

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advice on ways to get an idea of what I want to be


Posted Wednesday June 25 2014, 11:22 am

Okay so I'm 15 and ever since I could understand what college was I always said I'm going. Yeah I know over the years kids and teenagers change their mind a lot on what they want to be. But I don't know I just really would like at least a firm grounding on what id be doing somewhat. Is there anything I can take or do to get that? It honestly bugs me so much that I don't have the slightlest clue anymore. I just want to have an idea at least so I know what classes to take in high school so I could get into the best college for whatever I want to do. I've took a lot of those career test and every result I get each of them had science(chemist and physicist) and creative jobs(journalism and stuff like that) equally matched. Which is frustrating ...

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Aspergers Syndrome..?


Posted Wednesday June 25 2014, 6:52 am

Hi, I am a fifteen year old girl, and I have trouble connecting with people socially. I have lost many of my friends due to this matter, and I have lost my confidence, because of this. I dont know how to act in social situations, and I tend to act rather awkward. I have even been told, I react differently than others normally do, I also find others staring at me, or giving me funny looks, and laughing at me. I guess you could say I dont have a very good graph like others normally grow to have. I have tried talking to my mother about this, but she just thinks I am being shy. I, on the other hand, think differently. What do you think?

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He still loves me... But we aren't together. Was I living a fairytale?


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 9:58 pm

Jist of what happened in the past
- I liked his best friend, same college
- We met and even though things got messed up ended up liking each other
- Started dating when he passed out (im still doing my undergrad)
- we have been dating a year. I'm 19 he's 22
- our parents know about us and we have met both sides
- we met in college and then he passed out and started giving exams
- he couldn't clear the exams he gave so his parents got paranoid about him going on the wrong path or getting distracted because of me
- he promised his mom hed clear the last exam for us to prove to her he can do something
- he started working with this ngo in town so we would see each very often
...

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Acting


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 7:40 pm

I tried to look up SAG and ACTRA on Google... It didn't give me any eligible results. Could you possible send me the links to the websites?

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Liking Someone Again?


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 7:25 pm

So I just saw this thing online saying "feelings that come back are feelings that never went away"... and I'm confused because I liked this guy (Zack) and well yeah I liked him for a few months back in late 2011 and then I started getting these new feelings for this other guy. I really really did like this guy and I guess you can say we were friends around that time until the next year, we stopped being "friends"... and also when I stopped liking Zack, I was friends with him too. And I guess whenever he would talk to me I would smile? Idk. Then yeah 7th grade came and I stopped talking to the both of them but I still talked to Zack like every other month and it would be like a "hi" and idk it would make my day....

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YouTube


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 7:23 pm

Hi, I am a 13 year old girl and I have big dreams of becoming a famous singer & actress. I have a YouTube account, and I think it's the only way to show my talent to people. I have scripts from movies, but I don't have any other friends who could act in front of a camera with me. Some are scared because of "privacy issues", and others aren't really into acting. Do I just need to act out the whole script by myself and post that on to YouTube?

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FB


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 6:31 pm

Facebook says "no displayable content"

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I never get to talk or see my boyfriend anymore


Posted Tuesday June 24 2014, 5:22 pm

Im a senior in high school and i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He is my best friend, but ever since our junior year of high school started we never get to hang out anymore or we barely talk. We would talk on skype for hours on end and we would text all the time. He has been busy though throughout the year so it explains part of the reason we dont talk or hang out. The thing is that I go to a youth group on sundays and for the past year i have asked him to go at least once but he never can. I know some people might think that its because he doesnt want to go, but i know for a fact that he does. His parents always tell him that they have a family thing or something coming up on the night i ask. Then sometimes if i ask him...

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