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Liking Someone Again?
So I just saw this thing online saying "feelings that come back are feelings that never went away"... and I'm confused because I liked this guy (Zack) and well yeah I liked him for a few months back in late 2011 and then I started getting these new feelings for this other guy. I really really did like this guy and I guess you can say we were friends around that time until the next year, we stopped being "friends"... and also when I stopped liking Zack, I was friends with him too. And I guess whenever he would talk to me I would smile? Idk. Then yeah 7th grade came and I stopped talking to the both of them but I still talked to Zack like every other month and it would be like a "hi" and idk it would make my day... but I still liked the other guy.. and I still did through 7th grade and 8th grade.. then during the end of 8th grade I stopped liking the other guy because he was being an a hole and yeah but like a week before i found out he was an ass, I started getting these feelings from Zack.. like that week before, he would be around me and close to me a lot and I liked it and I just started developing those feelings because he was 'close' to me and was around me during that week which was weird because he and i never really talk anymore. But I remember when I was crying over that a hole, I was thinking of Zack and I quickly got over that guy (took a day or two) which was weird because I liked him for over 2 years... but yeah... then my feelings for Zack started to grow and grow and grow. and I don't know... so have i always had feelings for him? like deep down? even tho i liked another guy?
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Oh my dear!! Your heart needs to take a breather. Your gut is more stable than your heart.Our hearts can be fickle sometimes.
Take time to really think about this,youre young and there's no rush for anything.
How does this young man that you like feel? Does he feel like you do,do you have fun together?
If he makes you happy,take it slowly step by step,because boys mature later than girls do,so he may not be up there in emotions as you might be
Be blessed and I wish you well!
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We can't answer that for you.
Only you can figure out what you feel.
But the truth is that the idea that "feelings that come back are feelings that never went away" is a very simplistic and immature way to look at emotions. We can have lots of feelings, even for people we don't want to be with at all. Feelings don't always reflect what we want, or what we know is realistic, they just sort of exist.
Don't worry too much about what you used to feel, or might feel in the future. You don't have much control over either of those things. Instead, focus on what you feel now, and what you want to do. Sometimes, what you feel isn't the same as what you want to do.
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