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One Night Stand: Cant stop thinking about
19/f
So I started Uni this year and (very out of character for me) I had a one night stand at the very beginning after my first ever time of going to a club.
Thing is, a month later I then got into a relationship, and have been in this relationship ever since.
I love my bf a lot and we are both very faithful/committed etc. But I cant stop thinking about my one night stand.
Like I cant stop checking his Twitter feed-feeling butterflies if I happen to pass him in the corridor or even just seeing his friends gets me into a hot sweat.
I've since learnt that obviously the one night stand doesn't care about me at all-and tbh I don't care that he doesn't care. I did ask him out of said night but he said no.
How do I stop thinking about him? Or do you never really forget your first time? Because I feel like I'm hiding this from my bf.
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You may be suffering from something called a guilty conscious. Try and write your feelings down in a diary and see if it helps if not talk to a psychologist it may be an attachment disorder.
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You rarely forget the first time you do anything. Be it the first time you make love, the first time you are kissed, the first time you drive a car. First times can be milestones in our lives many of which we like to keep and savor.
For some reason this one night stand is a milestone, maybe because you did something for the first time so out of character for you. Going off to college or Uni presents the possibility of many first times to do things that maybe you would not thought or had the opportunity to do at home. For whatever the reason this is a milestone event in your life. Treat it as such.
File it away with other milestone events that years from now when your at home, the kids are in bed, your husband is out of town and you're on the couch with a bowl of chocolate ice cream sitting in front TV you can think about these events without worry or embarrassment.
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