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Masterbation


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 5:01 pm

What can I use for masterbation?
14/f

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Ideas for surpising my girlfriend


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 2:38 pm

We have been together for a year and a half, things are slowing a bit. We both know it and neither of us want it. I would love some great ideas for nice surprises. I have done flowers and letters and all that jazz but i would like something different. I am going to sneak letters and treats into places she may find them, just to give her a nice thing, but some ideas for days or things.
BTW it can't be something over night as her parents are very strict, have to bare that in mind.

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SCARED to fall too fast


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 2:37 pm

In past relationships I have been sexually abused, and hurt by them. I have met someone new and i have been single for 8 months and I feel that I am ready. I know for a fact he isn't going to hurt me because I want to be a police officer in the near future, and he graduates from the academy in november. He tells me I am beautiful, and cute, and smart. How do I keep myself from getting so caught up in the situation and falling too fast because I don't want to ruin this because of how i feel!

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Hey


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 12:07 pm

Hey man! It's wrong.The premarital sex thing.GOD Answered the question HIMSELF through people.Thanks anyways.Deuteronomy 22:13-the end.Try reading it.

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I'm done with him


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 10:23 am

I feel like I've been chasing this guy that I've liked off and on for years. He says he likes me, but he likes someone else, or he says he'll take me on a date and that he's not interested in having a relationship right now because he's preparing to go on a mission, but then I find out that he IS in a relationship. Not to mention that he's LIED to me all these years. When I found out about his relationship, I wanted to call him and yell at him and ask him so many questions to why he lied to me again.

I have been thinking about this a lot, and I've come to a decision that I have got to stop chasing him, and just let him come to me if he has a problem. Am I doing the right thing? Thanks!

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Bad Situation sex friends and babies


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 9:11 am

21 m

hey I have recently become the center of a huge problem. I have been in a relationship with a girl for seven years, we have a two year old daughter, and have had ups and downs, we will call her "B". also there is this friend of mine, a girl, whom Ive known for 10 years and is one of my closest friends, we will call her "A". One day 5 years ago "A" and "B" meet and become best friends,almost like sisters, closer than I am to either of them, and it stayed that way for 5 years. in 2007 "B" cheated on me for three months with an ex of hers, "A" was by her side the whole time. it blew over, I got over it, we settled back into our life again. things go back to normal...

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Why wont my boyfriend kiss me anymore?


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 8:26 am

16/f I've been going with this 16year old boy for about 3 months we had sex for the first time at my house and when he came in he kissed me. Then I took him to my room and we had sex and not to be too detailed I went down on him. Since then we have not kissed and I dont know what I should do or say to him, because we still have sex, just no kissing. He's giving me mixed emotions... HELP ME

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Afraid to approach my boyfriend when he is with his friends


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 5:31 am

My boyfriend and I have been together now for 3 months and I have never been more happier in my entire life. A while ago now he told me that he is in love with me and I told him that i have fallen in love with him too. My problem is though that I always feel a bit weird going up to him first at school. He always comes up to me when my friends are around but when he is with his friends I feel a bit nervous going up to him. Is this normal? I want the confidence to go up to him first. It's annoying because I should already have the confidence because I am in love with him... or do I just think I am? I think I do love him. Every time I think about my future I always picture him in it. I want to be with him forever and he wants to be with me for...

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I'm so scared.


Posted Friday July 29 2011, 2:26 am

This is probably going to be long, and I'm probably going to sound clingy and pathetic, please bear with me.

A little less than 2 months ago, I met the man of my dreams. It sounds bizarre that I'm so sure of myself because it's only been 2 months, but I'm completely confident that I'm in this for the long run. He feels the same way. I spend literally every possible minute with this man. Here are a few problems.

He's going back to college for his sophomore year at SUNY Albany, which is a little over 2 hours away from my house. I'm going to our local community college.
Problem 2: He's a Marine. He's most likely getting deployed for 7 months in December. The thought of going more than a day without him ups...

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having second thoughts about getting married


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 10:40 pm

what if you are having second thoughts about getting married.

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Public hair


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 10:38 pm

Should one shave their pubic hair for someone with whom they are casually sexing?

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Going too fast ? It isn't his fault!


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 8:47 pm

first im not going to say my age because I dont want to hear that im too young. but im older than 13.
anyway :

so I'm going to try and put this as short as possible. its going to be 2 years that I met this guy we'll call him M. well during the first year, the first couple of weeks I developed a huge crush on M. but I never went for him because he was well more popular than me and I was kind of a real big loser. so I knew he would never date me. anyway so my crush for him during the first year was huge! than well during the second year I became bestest friends with this girl name well S. and she out of no where started to like M. and they ended up dating ! I was definitely happy for both of them. and M's bestfriend T, I...

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Why can't I say goodbye? He is 26 and I am 15.


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 8:27 pm

im 15 years old and last year on thanksgiving my family got together and my 56 year old aunt brought her bf who is 26 and every family thing he is always there with my aunt and i hang around with them because i think they are really cool. Anyways I know that he's been in jail a lot of times and he has tattoos all over his body and I know he smokes weed. He txts me and he recently told me he broke up with my aunt and that he really likes me. I really like him but it kinda scares me. He said he wants to have sex with me but i told him im only 15 and he says he will wait until i turn 18 to do anything...He knows where i live but I don't wanna stop talking to him cuz i like him. (My mom and dad have told me to stay away from him but I can't he...

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I feel uncomfortable around his friends :/


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 6:04 pm

My boyfriend and I only see eachother once or twice a week. Sometimes, on those days I see him, he wants to hang out with his friends. He doesn't have many, but when we do hang out with some of them, I get very uncomfortable and I barely talk. I'm not even sure why. From my perspective, I think it's because we both come from different "worlds". ME: 18, just graduated high school with high honors, college plans, looking for a part-time job, have a similar group of friends that have the same goals as I do, not too much of a partier (very rare, but I do..). BOYFRIEND: 20, dropped out of college for now, has a job that pays decently, likes to party but doesn't that much anymore, smokes marijuana daily, and has a group of friends that...

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Not to be afraid..


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 5:17 pm

My name is B.
18/F

I met this guy when I was doing some volunteer work. He is 3 years older than I am, and absolutely perfect because he has major respect and we have all the same values. I feel this could go somewhere. I constantly get scared when it comes to opening up in a new relationship because of past relationships. How can i prevent myself from getting so scared and ruining everything? We have the same wants in life, and we want the same career even though he will get it much sooner than I will. We both are on our way to becoming Police Officers, and I find that a plus because we both know a lot, him more, but I find great potential in this and I just don't want to be scared. HELP!

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Is this wrong of me to want my boyfriend ALL to myself???


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 1:50 pm

I'm 19 and my boyfriend's 21. We've been dating for 4 months. We live about an hour away from eachother and he works a lot so I only see him once or twice a week. The problem I have is I see him when he either has off from work or has time before/after work to hang out. But lately, I've been getting annoyed with him because he wants to hang out with his friend and drink or play video games or whatever they do. Last week, when I was with him, he tried to make me go over there with him. I dont drink, so it would be boring for me! We ended up getting into a fight and he wonders why I don't want to "hang out with people when I'm with him". He barely hangs out with any of my friends because we're usually ALWAYS out by where he lives...

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Am i making the right decision ?


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 10:28 am

Okay so yesturday i had a question about my dream that i had about my ex-boyfriend , who is no longer an ex-boyfriend as of today. Well my question is am i making the right decision? I mean i really like him and i want to go back out with him but the way i see it is that there are a couple ways that this can turn out to be. 1. we break and it ruins our friendship that we've had for 3 yrs. But if we break up it could make our relationship even stonger / will be closer to each other , after all we are bestfriends. Just please help , i really need some guidience.

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long distance relationship?


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 2:04 am

well i like this guy and he just asked me out and hes moving in 5 days and ya soo i told him i would think about it but i dont know what to say please help :S

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He's younger then me by a year


Posted Thursday July 28 2011, 1:21 am

Hello I like this boy on my street andi know
He likes me back he told his sister and his
Sister told me herself and everyone teases
Him! But Im starting to have feelings for him
And he's only 8 months younger than me I
Don't know what to do!!!

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I love one boy but I dont know what he think about me. I'm from Turkmenistan


Posted Wednesday July 27 2011, 1:46 pm

HI. I'm from Turkmenistan .I'm nearly 14 . I love one boy . He is older than me. We usually talk together with him . But I'm confused. because I don't know what he think about me. Please help me .

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