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Am i making the right decision ?
Okay so yesturday i had a question about my dream that i had about my ex-boyfriend , who is no longer an ex-boyfriend as of today. Well my question is am i making the right decision? I mean i really like him and i want to go back out with him but the way i see it is that there are a couple ways that this can turn out to be. 1. we break and it ruins our friendship that we've had for 3 yrs. But if we break up it could make our relationship even stonger / will be closer to each other , after all we are bestfriends. Just please help , i really need some guidience.
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There is really no way of telling you how its going to go. Either you want to be with him or you don't. You have to way the pros and cons before getting back with an ex. I had to do that with my recent boyfriend we broke up for a bit and I was unsure of whether we should get back together at first. I weighed the pros and cons though and I loved him. Relationships are work and they take time. Go out and have fun. If there is something stopping you I would re-think your decision. Don't base the friendship on getting back together with him because that'll hurt the friendship more. Ask yourself do you love him? Do you see him in your future? Does he make you happy? Think about it.
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Let me ask you this: does it feel right to be with him again? Because if it does, then you are ok. But if it doesn't, then you need to think about if you really do like him. Just keep going with him, and find out if it's really worth getting back together with him.
Good luck! Inbox me if you need anything. :)
-Kaylie
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