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Afraid to approach my boyfriend when he is with his friends
My boyfriend and I have been together now for 3 months and I have never been more happier in my entire life. A while ago now he told me that he is in love with me and I told him that i have fallen in love with him too. My problem is though that I always feel a bit weird going up to him first at school. He always comes up to me when my friends are around but when he is with his friends I feel a bit nervous going up to him. Is this normal? I want the confidence to go up to him first. It's annoying because I should already have the confidence because I am in love with him... or do I just think I am? I think I do love him. Every time I think about my future I always picture him in it. I want to be with him forever and he wants to be with me forever too. But why can't I go up to him? I don't understand why it is so hard?
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I had the same problem. You are his girlfriend so you are allowed to go up to him when his friends are around. It was a big problem for me for awhile until his friends started talking to me when I was around and I was cool with them.
Just forget about how nervous you are because your boyfriend is totally worth it.
I wouldn't know if you are in love with him or not. My last boyfriend told me he was in love with me when we were only together for 3 months too. Honestly, I thought it was really soon but who knows. I told him I loved him too but I wasn't sure if I was in love with him.
Like, I loved him as my boyfriend but I wasn't like full on in love with him yet.
So it could be possible or it might not be, but don't stress out about that and go with the flow.
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3 months isnt a very long time to know each other. I mean it is always possible. I know a girl who started dating a guy in the 10th grade and 6 years later they are still together strong. As in for you confidence just take a deep breath and go for it. You have to fix this for your self. If you really love him and you dont want to be shy then you need to change that and I am sure you can! good luck
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