We have been together for a year and a half, things are slowing a bit. We both know it and neither of us want it. I would love some great ideas for nice surprises. I have done flowers and letters and all that jazz but i would like something different. I am going to sneak letters and treats into places she may find them, just to give her a nice thing, but some ideas for days or things.
BTW it can't be something over night as her parents are very strict, have to bare that in mind.
millie96 answered Friday July 29 2011, 4:53 pm: Aww. You're so thoughtful. Well, to begin with, you should know that us girls just LOVE details. It's nice to know that a guy has been thinking about you and took the time to give you a little surprise that he knew would make you smile. One thing my boyfriend did for me once on my eighteenth birthday was leave little post-it notes everywhere around my room and house telling me sweet little things. I got up, and there were eighteen roses on my desk. Then when I opened my closet, there was a post-it note wishing me a happy birthday and telling me how much he cared for me. Then on my mirror were various other post-it's: one said "I love you!" and the other said "You are beautiful, no matter what you wear :)" and one said "Jesus loves you, and so do I!" and cute thngs like that. I was pretty much the happiest girl alive at the moment. And when I wen't down for breakfast with my parents (they had made an amazing breakfast for me), they told me that he had come at 6 in the morning and even left me a small cake in the fridge. When I looked I almost cried, it even had my name writte on it and hearts all around. You should try these little details! Not necessarily all of them at once, but one day when she goes to the bathroom or something, putone post-it on the inside of her closet. There are so many cute and thoughtful things you can do for her, just use your imagination. Also be creative with the dates, or the relationship with get boring. Try a picnic, waterpark, or cooking! You don't always have to spend a lot of money, but even going to the park is really fun and a nice place fo both of you to relax. Good Luck!
-Millie :) [ millie96's advice column | Ask millie96 A Question ]
OctoberBeat answered Friday July 29 2011, 4:51 pm: Just gonna throw 'em out there bud.
Indoor picnics, or outdoor.
Cook together, make cookies, or stir fried rice.
Watch some movies together.
Go to the zoo, museum, aquarium, theater, carnivals, concerts, conventions.
Play some basketball, or soccer at the park.
Like animals? Go to a petstore together, look around and buy some fish maybe.
Go out to eat, nothing flashy but, maybe some frozen yogurt.
Teach her something you can do that she can't. For example play an instrument.
Just goof off together.
Don't try to plan everything, just go with the flow y'know. [ OctoberBeat's advice column | Ask OctoberBeat A Question ]
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