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exboyfriends opinion about hair color.


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 8:23 pm

my exboyfriend loves dark hair on girls, long story short i always dye my hair dark brown during the winter time, were trying to work on being friends. anyways, im sick of my hair and its approaching when i usually dye it. currently it's light brown. i want to dye it but i if i dye my hair darker, i'll just feel guilty for myself. i dont know why its just how i feel. but if i get highlights i feel like im getting it inspite of him. i need to change my hair (no i refuse to cut it im growing it out lol) but i don't know what to do. =/ ideas?

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Keeping a long term relationship exciting


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 7:04 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and we recently took a short break because things got bad. We have decided to try again, so I really want some help in making this work. We are long distance, so this also makes things hard.

I'm looking for ideas to keep our relationship exciting and new, ways to spice it up and make things interesting. Any tips?

Thanks so much!

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How far is okay to go with a guy


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 3:17 pm

So my boyfriend and I have been dating around a year. We always hold and hands and he puts his arm around me, but we didn't kiss for a long time. Once we finally kissed like a month later he tried to French kiss me, I was expecting it so I backed away but the next day I gave in. After that we were sitting together one time and he starts kissing me and then puts his hand on my chest and then he even slipped his hand in my shirt an was messing around. I liked it so I didn't stop him. The very nex day we were watching a movie and e does the same thing but this tine he slipped his hand down my pants.
Now two days ago we were walking an we went under a bridge and started making out and he kept lifting my shirt up and finally I undid my b...

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what goes on in a boys mind?


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 11:04 am

helpp. so theres this guy i met at the end of last year from school. we started talking on facebook mostly and only a little at school since were shy. we talked alot online and i found out hes soo sweet and said really nice things and we went on a date once but i went on vacation the whole summer and now its a new year at school but he hasnt said a word to me yet and all he does is look at me. also whenever i send a message to him online he just logs out and doesnt write back. i cant believe it since he said such sweet things last year and he really seemed to care about me alot! what goes on in a boys mind?? PLEASE HELP!!

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good relationship what happened?


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 10:54 am

I am a lesbian and just found out my ex was cheating on me so we broke up. We have been together for a little over 2 years. A friend threw a friend contacted me on facebook (who is also a lesbian) and said she isnt good for you things will be ok and was very comforting. She didn't even know me but was there for me no matter what. She text me everyday and was always there for me. We started hanging out and getting close very quick. She just broke up ith her ex in august who had hurt her very bad wouldnt let her do things will her daughter really messed her up. After almost 2 weeks of us talking and hanging out she asked me if i was readyfor a relationship. I said yes because she makes me feel so comfy and just safe. So her and her sister and...

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boys and drugs


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 6:06 am

I'm 14 (female) and I like a guy a lot but I've just found out from my friend that he smokes weed along with loads of other guys from my year. The problem is I still like him a bit because I cant really believe it...what should I do about it and should I carry on as if I dont know and that everything is normal??

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Where to Get BF?!?


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 5:10 am

Im 13, female, and I live in the lamest, deadest, stupidest town EVER!!! There are like 3000 people and almost none of them are my age. They are either 6 years too young or 6-86 yrs too old. Im tryin to find the perfect boyfriend but dont know how. Any help?

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help this is ruining my life!


Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 4:21 am

Well to start off with I'm 14 years old and I'm a girl, and I've had about 4 boyfriends in my life, the last time I kissed I was in primary school (10 years old) but it wasn't a proper kiss, because we got dared to do it, that's the only time in my life I have faced my fears and kissed someone, but I was a child what was I meant to know? Well now I've had this boyfriend for 2.5 years and all I've done is hugged him once or twice, and its really awquard, he's kissed lots of times, and he's had intimacy with another girl, but I can't even kiss him so I feel so stupid >.< We haven't even held hands, and we hardly speak face to face, but the thing is I fell in love with him, and and that makes it even harder! Well its been like this with...

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Is it unattractive when guys fart?


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 9:50 pm

I'm just trying to prove a point to my boyfriend, it's NOT attractive when guys fart correct?

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still waiting...


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 9:14 pm

ugh its been about 4 years now that i've liked a guy. i haven't gotten over him not even once. i've tried but it doesn't work. everyone tells me to get over him, but i just can't i don't wanna get over him. i've never talked to him, and i don't think i will ever have the courage or strength to... he is a huge star player on his football team. and he is well known all over my school. i can't just tell him how i feel, but i want to. he's know for 4 years that i've liked him. oh btw i'm a sophomore in high school and he's a junior. anyways if i talk to him i know he would tell his friends. i put myself down because of him, and tell myself i'm not good enough for him. he's kinda a bad kid, well that's what i've heard. he smokes and all that cra...

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Bad relationship but I don't want drama


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 8:07 pm

17/f
Me and my ex boyfriend, Johnny, had the type of relationship that was really good when it was good but when it was bad it was really bad. I broke up with him one night after finding out that he stayed night after night at his ex girlfriend's house after telling me he doesn't talk to her. (She is crazy obsessed with him) After a month or so Johnny and I ended up becoming friends. We got really close, he would call me every night just to tell me he loves me and he would tell me all about his day. He transferred over to my school (small school, about 50 students, impossible to avoid anyone) the minute he saw me talking to my friend(male) he came up and mugged my friend until he left. I told Johnny that his actions were unnecessary ...

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I'm I not as cute?


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 8:05 pm

Boy's want my sister but not me. Don't know if it's cause of age(I'm 14 and she's 16) or what. But a lot of pepole say I look a lot like her(I can't see that)
Why can't I get a boy?

For girl's only....thanks anyway.

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lesbian? bisexual? or straight?


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 1:21 pm

me and my best friend (girl) we kissed im single but shes not, so we asked her boy if it was okay if two girls kissed and he said it was hot, and he asked if me and her had kissed, we said no. we lied to him...and now me and her would be kissing all the times. at school, her house, at the bus, basically every time we are alone. I don't think i mind but, the thing is that before i kissed her i kinda use to like girls, and guy too..but now I'm afraid shes bi, because shes my best-friend; i told her that this could ruin our friendship, but she said it wouldn't. oh and she also told me i cant go around kissing other girls...just guys...
I'm 16 and we live in Texas... okay thanks. =)
.:. should i stop? or just keep going? thank you

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the man i love is rejecting my sexual advances in the morning. do i stop?


Posted Saturday October 15 2011, 9:06 am

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now, and i seriously believe whole heartedly that we are meant to be together
we are two of a kind, and we have fallen for each other so quickly. He treats me absolutely amazingly and always puts me first.

The only thing worrying me right now, is i dont know how to deal with my feelings when he rejects my advances in bed. I lost my virginity to him, and he told me that anytime im in the mood, or i just want to explore his body i can. He told me i could touch him anywhere, anytime and that his body is mine now, as mine is his also.

but the last two times that we've woken up beside each other, and ive been in the mood, my advances got rejected...ive neve...

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how do i get him and make him like me back


Posted Friday October 14 2011, 9:00 pm

hay, my name is sally and theirs this boy hes really cute he stares and looks at me all the time i don't no if he likes me or not i want him but i don't no if he wants me so my question is how do i get him and make him like me back and also notice me i could really need your adive!. ;)


sinserly,
sally


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liking a boy... what should I do?


Posted Friday October 14 2011, 2:13 pm

well i like this guy and we talk sometimes but i don't know if he likes me what should i do

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Should I say soething to my boyfriend about his table manners?


Posted Thursday October 13 2011, 3:40 pm

My boyfriend is a gorgeous guy who is well mannered (yes sir no sir yes ma'am, no ma'am to all adults) He is athletic and really smart (straight A's in school)but for some reason he always wears his paper napkin tucked in the collar of his shirt when he eats and I don't think that is what most 16 year olds do when they eat. I have not done that since I was 10 years old. Should I say something to him about it. My mom thinks it is cute and told me not to say anything because it would probably embarrass him. I have seen his younger brother (14) do the same thing at dinner one night so I guess maybe his parents require this. What should I do?

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development


Posted Thursday October 13 2011, 3:26 pm

17/f my boyfriend and i have been dating for a really long time now and we have been best friends before that. me and him are virgins and haven't done anything and we're ready to have sex . my question to you is : does sex stop your development?
i want to know because i am still a A cup and i'm 5'2 please help !

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i get jealous when my boyfriend talks to other girls.


Posted Thursday October 13 2011, 10:46 am

I'm 19/f, my boyfriend of 1 year is 18/m.

My boyfriend likes meeting new people, and I respect that. Just yesterday, he met a girl..(when he went to take placement tests so that he can apply to college next semester.) Apparently, this girl that he met was on campus for placement tests too.

So, when I finally saw him later that night, he told me that he hung out with "his new friend Michaela" for the entire day, and that he picked her up from her friend's house so that they could go to the mall, and he bought her ice cream, and they hung out with another couple, his best friend tyler and tyler's girlfriend.

I asked him a lot of questions about "his new friend" because I'm ter...

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Long distance heartache


Posted Thursday October 13 2011, 9:57 am

20/f this guy I went to college with my first two years we were friends, by the end of my second year we became very close I told him personal things about me and same with him. he became one of my best friends. we never hung outside of school until I asked him to hang out, he said he couldnt because he had a girlfriend which I didnt know. We still continued to be friends, then he asked me to hang out we had dinner he payed and from then on we had dates, he would pay for me always and text me all the time but he never kissed me because he didnt want to cheat eventually we developed to a physical level while he still had a girlfriend, ( by the way hes from ohio, he went to school in pa where im from his gf was in ohio) he went home during t...

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