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boys and drugs
I'm 14 (female) and I like a guy a lot but I've just found out from my friend that he smokes weed along with loads of other guys from my year. The problem is I still like him a bit because I cant really believe it...what should I do about it and should I carry on as if I dont know and that everything is normal??
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In life you're going to find people who have lifestyles that you might not necessarily agree with. I know weed is illegal but it's not hurting anyone and it's not a health risk (or so I've heard). I don't smoke weed but I have some friends that do and I'm still friends with them. I guess if it makes you uncomfortable than move on. If that's the only thing that is making you uncomfortable but you still like the guy than flirt with him or ask him out. Don't judge him for what he does or how he lives his life. And don't ever try to change him and his lifestyle. Like him for who is as a person and not what he does.
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Your boy smokes weed. This is NOT ok. I don't think it's good to stay with him. There are other fish in the sea. Now if you realy realy love this guy try to get him to stop. A guy that smokes weed most likely is going downnn with the law. Sorry.
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The guy is into drugs, Is it okay for someone to do drugs? No. I really think you should just let him go and find someone who thinks with a clear head not someone who's always trippin
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Hey. I feel like at least from what I've seen in high school and college, a lot of young people these days use marijuana. I'm not saying that I advocate for or even against it, but the truth is that you're bound to meet people who do. I also don't want to sterotype anyone who does smoke weed. I'm from california so weed smokers are literally everywhere. However, I feel like what one chooses to do with his body is a personal decision. A person who does smoke weed isn't less of a good person or automatically undatable. Of course it depends on you. Would it upset you to be around someone who smoke regularly? Are you strongly against the use of weed? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Also, remember that he has a lot of other qualities as well. Try to see if the weed smoking is the center of his life. I've met people who smoke recreationally and also those who are high at all times of the day. Is he smart? Nice? Thoughtful? Fun? You shouldn't act like you know that he smokes and definitely don't tell him that you know. Be the same as you have been in the past and try to see if he's the type of boy that you are looking for. If he isn't then it'll be fine; you'll move on and find a boy who does fit the description of what you're looking for. I hope everything works out for the best.
Good luck <3
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