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what goes on in a boys mind?


Question Posted Sunday October 16 2011, 11:04 am

helpp. so theres this guy i met at the end of last year from school. we started talking on facebook mostly and only a little at school since were shy. we talked alot online and i found out hes soo sweet and said really nice things and we went on a date once but i went on vacation the whole summer and now its a new year at school but he hasnt said a word to me yet and all he does is look at me. also whenever i send a message to him online he just logs out and doesnt write back. i cant believe it since he said such sweet things last year and he really seemed to care about me alot! what goes on in a boys mind?? PLEASE HELP!!

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AdviceMistress answered Monday October 17 2011, 11:34 am:
Try confronting him at school if possible. Who knows what goes on in boy's minds...boys can be weird and I'm sure they think the same for us girls. If you really want to know though put him on the spot at school or maybe write him a message on facebook asking him what the deal is. Maybe he's afraid to get rejected? Hard to tell what he's thinking so you should ask him about it.

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DangerNerd answered Sunday October 16 2011, 10:01 pm:
Hi there,

Is it possible he has a new person in his life now?

Not sure if I am understanding you correctly: You went away for the entire summer and didn't contact him at all... and now you are wondering why he might not be interested in talking to a girl who goes on one date then stops talking to him for three months?

Is that about it?

If so, he probably took your silence as hatred for him. Why would he talk to you after that?

If not, and you guys talked every day while you were gone, but when he got back to school he wasn't interested in being with you... then I don't know. The only way to find out is to get him to tell you.

Rather than trying to talk to him on-line, try talking to him in person.

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