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good relationship what happened?
I am a lesbian and just found out my ex was cheating on me so we broke up. We have been together for a little over 2 years. A friend threw a friend contacted me on facebook (who is also a lesbian) and said she isnt good for you things will be ok and was very comforting. She didn't even know me but was there for me no matter what. She text me everyday and was always there for me. We started hanging out and getting close very quick. She just broke up ith her ex in august who had hurt her very bad wouldnt let her do things will her daughter really messed her up. After almost 2 weeks of us talking and hanging out she asked me if i was readyfor a relationship. I said yes because she makes me feel so comfy and just safe. So her and her sister and her bf got a house I took off to help them move. I stayed thre a lot and she even gave me a house key. There was some nights I did go home. We hooked up a few times and the connection was just wow eye contact the whole time and we didnt hook up unless I stayed the night cuz she said its wrong for us to hook up then I leave. I even got close to her daughter and was gettin her up in the mornings for school so my gf could sleep. All of this happened in 2 weeks thats how long we dated. Then the other day she wasnt very touchy feely and sat alone and ws playing games. I asked if she wanted me to leave she said no I just like my me time. I got a feeling so I went home that night. I text her saying I feel I worn out my welcome she said no I just like my me time you kno what I mean. I said im sry you should of just said to leave she said no thats mean. Then yesterday she decided she was gonna spend the day with her daughter which was fine with me. Well as she kept textin I said maybe Ishouldnt stay for awhile and I should get my things I said her what she thought she said i dont know. Then she said she isnt ready for a relationship she thought she was but isnt and sh was sorry that I didnt deserve this and she felt bad but she just not ready. she said its her and there isnt no one else. I asked if we could talk face to face the next day she said ok. So the next morning I saw on facebook where sheput she was back to being single and someone commented and she said shen ot ready to be tied down. She wouldnt talk to me unless it was about me commin to get my stuff. When I got to her house she done left and my stuff was on the porch. She let me go inside to make sure she didnt forget anything (which she did) and asked i brought a few of her things in and I did. I told her when I left and I said so now what she said we could be firends I saidin the future a relationship? she said friends. Well last night she went to the bar with some friends and put on herfacebook had a great time glad to kno i still got game if i wanted to use it has a few beautiful ladies tell me my eyes was sexy. I dunno what she meansby that! She wont talk to me when I say I miss her or I wish we could work on things. But she text me when i said i forgot her jacket in my car and said shed let me kno when i could bring it by. is it a good thing she not talkin at all i mean she could be like stop i dont wanna hear it? i just miss her and ish we could work things out please help me and i really like this girl but dont know what to do!
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It sounds like the girl doesn't know what she wants and you sound like you do. There isn't much else you can do because you're letting her know how you feel and she's just not into being in a relationship. I know it hurts but I'm sure she's at a point where she doesn't know what to do whether it be she is still hung up on her last relationship or she wants to concentrate on herself. Who really knows except her. You should back away from her and try to start trying to see other women. I know you care for her but she doesn't seem to want a relationship so its best you give her some room.
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Obviously she thought she was ready for a relationship with you and things changed. she's currently in "party mode." I know its hard but I think you should give her space as much as possible. Do things to get her out of your head, i'm sure within the next two weeks of you not texting or contacting her, she'll text/call you first. If not she's just wasting your time & life is to short to wait for anyone, trust me. Good luck
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