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Where to Get BF?!?
Im 13, female, and I live in the lamest, deadest, stupidest town EVER!!! There are like 3000 people and almost none of them are my age. They are either 6 years too young or 6-86 yrs too old. Im tryin to find the perfect boyfriend but dont know how. Any help?
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I really feel for you here.
Okay, so you're 13. At 13 year old many girls drastically change from kids into mature women. Boys go through this change when they're about 15 years old. Based on this, if you go out with anyone your own age at the moment it would be wrong. Firstly because you'll probs find your dating a kid, and also because you'll be dating someone for the sake of it-so it may not last.
I think it sounds like if you don't mind me saying so that you're in love with the idea of having a boyfriend-and this wont change if you get one soon.
What's best is to wait a year. Most boys mature fully by the age of 15..so thens a good time :) I think you'll find as well that if you wait untill you're abit older, boys will respect you and will see you as an independant girl-which is very attractive.
Hope everything works out for you :)
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Hi,
I just ask all most the same thing.
I got good answers I'm 14 and I don't have a boy friend. Boys are still acting like little kids at 13. Try aging when your 15(maybe they will stop acting like 4year old's by then)
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Well I'm sure there is someone in your town. Do you know all 3000 people? You're 13 why are you in such a rush to get a boyfriend? Don't rush things just let them happen. And there is no such thing as perfect...everyone has their flaws. I guess if you really want to get to know people maybe go on some social networks online or something. Maybe join a club or go out to the movies with your friends. Be positive and don't be in such a rush to get a boyfriend. Boyfriends aren't everything you know!
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The perfect boyfriend will come when you stop looking.
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