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I'm I not as cute?
Boy's want my sister but not me. Don't know if it's cause of age(I'm 14 and she's 16) or what. But a lot of pepole say I look a lot like her(I can't see that)
Why can't I get a boy?
For girl's only....thanks anyway.
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The thing is, it's probably not you or your sister at all. It the boys.
Whilst girls mature around 13 and 14 years old, boys mature a little later. So if your mixing with mostly other 14 year olds then they may still have quite a childish outlook on life. However boys fully mature when they're around 15 and 16 years old. So I guess if you're sister is hanging out with guys her own age then thats why :)
Also don't compare yourself to your sister. If you want to increase your chances of getting a boyfriend then don't hide in her shadows-guys love individuality :)
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First off you shouldn't be comparing yourself to your sister. You two are different people! Never compare yourself to someone else because no one is like you and you no one ever will be like you.
I call this the "boy crazy syndrome". It's all about finding a boyfriend and having a boyfriend. Why do you want a boyfriend? Do you think it's going to make you feel better? Do you want one because your sister may have one? Why are you asking why you can't get a boy? Do you think your not good enough?
Don't put yourself down because you can't find a guy. It's not you, its jsut you haven't found him or maybe he hasn't found you. Don't worry about ti too much. Just have fun for right now!
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Why not give yourself a break here. You're only 14 and while your sister is only 16 and it may not seem like a big age difference to you. In teenage years that is a huge difference.
Your sister being 16 is more mentally mature, (even if you don't think so) possible more physically mature than you are. She is 2 to 3 grades ahead of you in school making her more socially mature as well.
When I was your sisters age we use to give siblings your age money and tell them to go to the movies and leave us alone. Many boys your age are not quite ready or are too awkward and unsure of themselves to approach girls yet. Give them a little more time to work up the courage. They're getting themselves ready.
In the mean time relax, you most likely look a lot like your sister. So watch what she does and learn form her. Let your body mature some more and when the boys are ready I'm positive that just like your sister you'll knock them dead.
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