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lesbian? bisexual? or straight?
me and my best friend (girl) we kissed im single but shes not, so we asked her boy if it was okay if two girls kissed and he said it was hot, and he asked if me and her had kissed, we said no. we lied to him...and now me and her would be kissing all the times. at school, her house, at the bus, basically every time we are alone. I don't think i mind but, the thing is that before i kissed her i kinda use to like girls, and guy too..but now I'm afraid shes bi, because shes my best-friend; i told her that this could ruin our friendship, but she said it wouldn't. oh and she also told me i cant go around kissing other girls...just guys...
I'm 16 and we live in Texas... okay thanks. =)
.:. should i stop? or just keep going? thank you
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If you are asking if you are a lesbian, bisexual or straight? I believe the correct answer considering your age would be you are experimental. Also considering your age there is nothing wrong with experimenting with your sexuality to find out just who you are sexually.
What is wrong is your friend telling you who you can kiss and date. By doing so she is trying to control you and this is a good and fast way to ruin a friendship.
Living in Texas puts you in the heart of the Bible Belt so my only advise to you about any of this would be not to announce this to anyone. As I said there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian or being bisexual. In some parts of this great country of ours they are less tolerant of differing sexualities than in other areas. Texas is one of those places.
So if you decide to continue to experiment with your sexuality, which as I have said, there is nothing wrong with. Just don't announce it to anyone, even your best friend. Keep it to yourself until you decide just what you are sexually speaking.
Sexually speaking you have to be just as comfortable with who you are as you are with everything else in this world. When you are sure of what that is then you can decide if it needs to be told. There is nothing wrong with being Gay or Bi. It is the other people who are being closed minded that have to be contended with.
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Keep going...
Btw no one is lesbian.
You can only be straight, and like girls more then guys.
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She can't tell you who you can and can not kiss. If you want to kiss girls your allowed to kiss them.
As for your friendship with her, this kissing could ruin the friendship if one person starts to like the other one more than a friend. Being that she has a boyfriend, and she is kissing you when you guys are alone..she is technically cheating on him without realizing, being that he is not aware of this.
My advice is to stop the kissing before it starts to become more than that, unless she breaks up with her boyfriend for you. Also tell her that she can't tell you who you can and can not kiss.
I hope I helped, if you need anything else feel free to drop one in the inbox. :)
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