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Disagreeing viewpoints with boyfriend


Posted Saturday November 26 2011, 5:11 pm

I love my boyfriend, but he is such a bigot! He believes blood is blue if de-oxygenated, global warming is a government conspiracy, racism is totally ok, and that dinosaurs never existed. I am a very scientifically inclined person; and I am appalled by his lack of general knowledge. How can I convince him of the truth?!?

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My boyfriend wants to keep us a secret...


Posted Saturday November 26 2011, 5:24 am

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months now, and he wants to keep us a secret from his friends and family. I am 14, he is 18 - please no comments about age, we don't mind the age difference at all - and we live far apart. We text all the time, but barley get to see eachother. He doesn't want to tell any of his friends or family - and won't say we are dating on faceboook. He always says he is going to marry me someday and acts mostly like he means it. I don't know what to do anymore, but I love him with all of my heart.

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I need a guys opinion


Posted Saturday November 26 2011, 1:39 am

Guys, I need your honest answer as to why you try so hard to be forward and let a girl know you're interested..only to go completely quit and distant one day??? I don't get it. I know this one guy who made it pretty blunt that he was into me, he was always talking and making the first text message move. And now it's like he just hasn't made any attempt to try and talk. I've texted him a few random times within the past week, and he doesn't reply. What can I do to make him go back to how he was acting? Thanks so much!!

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i barley get to see my boyfriend


Posted Saturday November 26 2011, 12:21 am

Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months almost 8. I barley get to see him anymore because of him being on football and me being on soccer. What do i do to try and get us to see each other more? Were both 14

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Telling your boyfriend you were raped.


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 7:56 pm

I asked this before but only to one person. I need more advice please. I recently told my b/f I was raped. His reaction? Oh I'm sorry baby. He doesn't really like it when I need to talk about things, or when I freak out when he does things. I am not trying to upset him or anything, but when I get to the point where I don't want to be touched, he acts like it pisses him off. I feel like he uses it against me too. I mean he knows have had sex, but I feel like he uses that to get more and more out of me. I don't like soingd certain things because I see my rapist. I told him that once and he looked like I slapped him. How do I handle telling him tihngs in a nice or gentle way? Please help me if you can

Female/21

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My boyfriend pushes me to go further


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 7:27 pm

All right so me and my boyfriend having been dateing for about a month now. We have kissed and I let him feel me up while we were making out. Now though it seems he "hints" toward wanting to do more. Like when he is touching my chest, he will move his hand down and kinda linger on my belt. I know what he wants and he knows I want to take things slow, but I feel guilty when he doesn't get what he wants(my past b/f's made me think we had to do things). I eventually give in and end up feeling like s*** afterwards. How can I tell him no and stick with it? My self-esteem is not that high do to past experiences. I am always the one who has to say no. He has never said no, or "well we don't have to".

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i dont know if i really wanna be with my boyfriend


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 12:32 pm

Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months now but i just dont know if i want to be with him or not anymore. I mean i do love him dont get me wrong there. What do i do?
I'm 15 and hes 16.

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My bf got hurt in a wreck last week and since I don't see him everyday anymore I don't have feelings for him now


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 10:57 am

My boyfriend got in a wreck a week or so ago. We used to see each other every weekend and every Friday. We were never apart. It was great. But now we barely see each other outside of school and I'm just not feeling our relationship anymore. This distance is terrible. I barely have the money and gas to go to his house and he has no car. We always said that the distance would never effect our relationship. I'm the first girl he ever felt strong feelings for and I never stop thinking about him, but not seeing him a lot makes me lonely and depressed. I try to hang out with friends and keep busy but I can't. How do I make these feelings go away? I could never ever break his heart.

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i dont understand this girl


Posted Friday November 25 2011, 4:06 am

so theres this girl in my school. Firsts time we met iwas a ta in the class and i had to help the students so i offered help and she asked for it. So i went over there everyone in the group was koo and we were all just talkin about random stuff. Then she really seemed to like me kinda laughing and touching. Then she suggested we txt but didnt have my phone at the time. So that was it tthen we talked a couple of days in the same class. But then stopped going to the group cuzz i kinda felt sketched out. She always seemed to ignore me outside of class not even lookin at me. So i was like fuck it. Nut then i just keep ignoring it. Then im comin outa my zero period and she was there and waved and said hi. And came up to me during lunch to cut an...

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What can I do, secually, with a married man without it really being cheating?


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 11:59 pm

I don't know what's wrong with me, but I ALWAYS seem to go after the guys who are either in a relationship, or in this case married. There's this married guy, only two years older than me, so it's not like he's old or anything, who has been giving me some pretty strong signals. We flirt all the time. And it's reached the point where I'm actually wanting to hook up with him due to all the sexual attraction. What do I do? I know it's wrong because he's married...but he's not making it easy on me to just forget about it. So what are some things that we can do to go beyond flirting but not full on cheating?

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Madly love to married man


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 10:43 pm

Creply : 23 indian)Hi Zane,appreciate your reply.But the thing is i really looking for a guy.but still i didn't feel anyone.That married man always in my mind.there are no words to express my love for him.i need some more advises to forget him.honestly i don't want to lose him.please help me to make my mind

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Does this mean I still like him??


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 5:27 pm

f/15
Okay, well let me start this off by saying my ex still likes me! So.....everytime we r going to hang out I'm up for it cause we r just hanging out right! But, when we actually start hanging out I get nervous/butterflies! Does this mean I still like him?? I REALLY WANNA KNOW IF I DO LIKE HIM!! PLEASE !HELP! ME PLEASE :)

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Work guy..boyfriend..


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 2:44 pm

19/f. my boyfriend is 20. we've been together for 2 yrs. I'm currently falling for another man who i work with. We've known each other for about 6 months... This man makes me feel better about myself than my boyfriend does... I am not and never will be a cheater but I do talk to the man from work on a regular basis. Lately my boyfriend and my relationship has been on the rocks and I'm getting extremely sick of him and I'm irritated with everything he does. I know he can see it. But I know he doesn't want to lose me. I'm not sure what to do about how i feel. Advice....please?

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What kind of girls do guys REALLY like?


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 12:43 am

15,female

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i madly love in married man


Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 12:18 am

i'm a girl 23 years old.his age is 28.i'm from india.i met him from my office.he is one of our customers.i'm the person who handle his account.Every day i have to talk to him because of the accounts matters.
day by day we talk more,laugh more.we got very closer to each other.he told me every thing about his life.for his marriage life almost 3 years.his wife 2 years elder than he.still he doesn't have babies and madly waiting for a child.According to him,his wife is not more interesting in sex.but they do sex.his wife not performing well.and she not talk more.
i know him now one and half years.we talk a lot and lot and lot.our ideas are really matching.i had sex with him,its awesome.i like the way talk,the way behave ,the way d...

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how do i get a guy hard over the phone?


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 9:56 pm

I'm talking to this guy, and he likes me so I want him to really feel it! I want to get him hard, but how do I do it over a phone conversation??

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To Keep, or to Pass?


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 7:18 pm

I recently started dating a guy I met at a friend's party. The first night we met, we played tag together in the park, shot horrible pickup lines at each other, and had a few electrifying moments when our eyes met or our hands touched. He was sexy, seemed very confident, and was ultimately the exact kind of guy I was looking for. He also seemed to be okay with my quirky, Goth personality, which was a major plus!

To give you a good reference point, I'm a girl who likes men like Hannibal Lecter. No lie. I like them dark, yet charming. Sweet at times, but serious in others. I like the edge of mystery or danger about a guy; he doesn't have to be, like, a cannibal, but I like to think that he's keeping me on my toes. I basically l...

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My first kiss


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 4:14 pm

Ok, so I'm taking the guy that I like to a dance in February. I really like this guy and I'm seriously considering kissing him. Should I wait, or should I make the move? If you have anything that's related to my question, please tell me. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!

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I told my boyfriend i wanna be fingered but i'm not sure now how do i tell


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 3:43 pm

I've told my boyfriend i wanna be fingered by him but i'm reallu scared about it as i'm only 12 but i do really love him but i don't wanna be fingered now, how do i tell him?

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Why dosent he respond when he is online??


Posted Wednesday November 23 2011, 12:33 pm

So me and this guy have been great friends fer a while...and I always send him messages on facebook, he gets online alot...but doent ever respond to my messages until about a day later....So wht is going on?? And when I talk to him...he always gets off without saying bye...and I is usually right in the midle of our conversation too..... so does anyone have any idea what is going on??

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