Question Posted Thursday November 24 2011, 10:43 pm
Creply : 23 indian)Hi Zane,appreciate your reply.But the thing is i really looking for a guy.but still i didn't feel anyone.That married man always in my mind.there are no words to express my love for him.i need some more advises to forget him.honestly i don't want to lose him.please help me to make my mind
You also have to realize that he is a married man. How would you feel if you were married to this man, and some other woman was in love with him and was trying to take him from you? You need someone else who doesn't have as much baggage. The chances of this man leaving his wife is very slim to none. Most married men don't leave their spouses.
Xui answered Thursday November 24 2011, 11:49 pm: There is no advice none can provide for you unless you are willing to take the steps to do what you should do.
Meaning, If you want to forget him then you need to stop seeing him and stop contacting him. As long as you are focused on this married man you will not allow yourself to move on and meet other people. You not wanting to loose him is also your unwillingness to try and seek a relationship. I do not think you are trying very hard to meet someone else as again you are too focused on what is not possible. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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