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i dont know if i really wanna be with my boyfriend
Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months now but i just dont know if i want to be with him or not anymore. I mean i do love him dont get me wrong there. What do i do?
I'm 15 and hes 16.
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well if you dont know if you want to be with him anymore then you might not love him. it all just depends on the situation. if there is no exact reason why you dont want to be with him then you dont love him. if its because all your freinds are single and they seem to be having the time of there lifes then its because you feel like you dont have the same freedoms that you had before you got into a relationship. if you feel that your loosing feeling for him dont drag out a relationship that you dont care for
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If you're not happy then you guys shouldn't be together. What are your reasons you don't want to be with him anymore? If they are serious then you definitely should end it but if it's more like you're bored with the relationship, you could save it by finding things to do that you both don't usually do. Like going out different places instead of the usual hanging out you guys might do.
If you completely get tired of it, holding onto the relationship will probably make it worse and it'll be harder for you to let go even though you don't want it anymore.
You're probably just really comfortable and those crazy feelings you had in the beginning of the relationship started fading away. It happens a lot but it's your choice whether to stay in the relationship or not.
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If you aren't happy being in the relationship then there is no point in proceeding. However, You should keep in mind that relationships have stages. There is the puppy love stage in the beginning and once you both start to get used to one another that stage sort of begins to fade. You can care for someone but if you aren't happy then move on.
Sometimes everyone goes through periods of being overwhelmed, bored, etc. If you are feeling overwhelmed then maybe you two could try to spend a day with friends and even it out. It's never good to spend 24.7 with your partner as sometimes the time apart is what keeps the relationship going. Maybe ease down on the amount of time you two spend together? 7 months is a decent time, Do you really want to just get rid of the relationship? Try and work it out if you can but if you really don't feel you can do it anymore then it may be best to go separate ways.
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I would say that I have to agree with the previous answer, you guys have been together long and the spark is probably gone, your probably getting bored with the situation. Maybe you and him should talk it out and see if you guys can come to an agreement, maybe take a break or try some new things together to reignite the sparks...Hope I helped... DiA:)
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In my opinion you've been together a long time as far as teenage relationships go.
Every relationhip gets to a point where both participants are 'comfortable'. Sadly for most people at this stage the excitement isn't there any more so they split up.
Seeing as you've been with him for this long it'd be a shame to split up with him, so I'd write down a list of reasons why you want to end it and then a list what you like about it. Sometimes we don't know how precious things are untill they're gone. Talk it through with your bf-chances are he feels the same too. By patience, determination and sweet little suprises here and there you guys can be stronger than ever. Good luck :)
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