Hi!! I"m Andia, ALl my friends call me Dia though. Im fun, vivacious and a real wild child. I LOVE helping people more than anything else i have 7 siters, 2 brothers and a hell-of-a-lot of family. Im from the Carribean but grew up n Florida! Now im working as a scretary full time, trying to save up 4 university. I blog alot (diamsp.blogspot.com) and some of the questions i answer may be featured there, no identities will be revealed i just want to help as many people as i can ... Lots Of Love Dia
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I am 19/f and my bf is 17. I graduated high school this past year and had no choice but to move (another long story) and so we are in a long-distance relationship. We are both very faithful and much in love but I have been Having this problem lately... He has a crappy phone so I can't talk to him ear to ear on the phone, all we can do is text. Well when he finally texts me we don't talk much. I try extremely hard to carry conversations with him but the majority of his responses are yea, idk, what, why?, lol, or smiley face. It's like he doesn't know what to talk to me about and I have brought up the subject and we will have a understanding and he will change for maybe a day or two but then just goes back to texting me one worded messages. I just don't know what I can do or say to keep him talking and making sure our relationship isn't going dull???
Thank you, One Word Annoyance
P.S. Would like to not only have advice from girls, but also if any guys can answer please do! (link)
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From my experience, long distance relationships cannot work without good communication. Your boyfriend should make an effort to get/borrow a phone so you guys can talk, or maybe once a week meet up on the internet and have a webcam session. His behavior leads me to believe that he's getting bored.. Hope I helped..DiA
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So i keep getting this clear discharge in my underwear and I've read that it's supposed to signal your period but I dont get mine. Is this something I should be concerned about? (link)
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No, not at all, if thers no pain or discomfort along with it your fine. Its just your body naturally cleansing itself.
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Me and my boyfriend been together for 7 months now but i just dont know if i want to be with him or not anymore. I mean i do love him dont get me wrong there. What do i do?
I'm 15 and hes 16. (link)
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I would say that I have to agree with the previous answer, you guys have been together long and the spark is probably gone, your probably getting bored with the situation. Maybe you and him should talk it out and see if you guys can come to an agreement, maybe take a break or try some new things together to reignite the sparks...Hope I helped... DiA:)
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Hi,I am from Jamaica
the right side of my throat hurts bad when i swallow anything even saliva and it makes my right ear hurt a lil bit... it is so uncomfortable. can anyone advise me on what to do to make it better? (link)
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Hey! Maybe you could try gargling with some salt water and taking some throat losenges. It could be your tonsils that are swollen but you will have to go to the doctor to know for sure. Hope I helped ...DiA :)
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I'm talking to this guy, and he likes me so I want him to really feel it! I want to get him hard, but how do I do it over a phone conversation?? (link)
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Well, it depends on the guy. But I would think most guys would respond to moaning and if your feeling especially daring maybe you could tel him how your hands are rubbing across your body, sliding down your shorts..etc. You know let him imagine you in his mind, I think that wil work. Hope I helped...DiA :)
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Ahh I need advice xD. So, I'm in a little dilemma with my boyfriend. We have a lot of trust in our relationship but last night I feel as though it was diminished quite a bit, off of just a misunderstanding. ( a pointless one at that,truly, I'm losing my mind over here!)
(This is going to take a lot to explain, but please read, I just need some feedback and you guys are awesome)
Anywho, my boyfriend and I were hanging out and I went to check my facebook- when our friend Steve messaged me. Steve often messages me these pointless stoner-like things, and me, being a friendly person, will usually just be random have a stupid conversation. This has been happening for months, but I've never been flirty in ANY way nor have I talked to Steve outside of the "facebook messaging realm".
Now in my boyfriends eyes, Steve has a history of "trying to steal his girlfriends". He's told me in the past Steve either took his girl or got them to be uninterested in him every time. Of course I knew this, but was I really in the wrong for just conversing with Steve? Steve is still a friend of mine, but I'd never see him in that way, and I'm not that ditsy of a chick to fall for any of whatever this kid would even try to pull.
And so,
Once my boyfriend saw that I've been talking (if you could even call it THAT) to Steve, he completely blew it out of proportion. He acted as though I was cheating on him, or two-timing him in some way. He dished out that I never told him Steve was messaging me, and said I lied to him, and overall made me feel really bad. And urged me not to talk to him anymore.
Honestly, I don't give a fuck if I talk to Steve, but the whole point is now I'm stuck with a huge slash of guilt and distrust from this miniscule little incident. And I'm loosing my mind as to HOW to make it better, and if I'm even in the fault! Or what to even say to him about it now!
I told him I was sorry, and that I wouldn't message Steve back anymore, but really, I feel like I'm sounding like that typical crazy girlfriend with this. Granted,I can totally see where he was coming from- if he was talking to one of my friends for months I'd be pissed off as well. Also the history of Steve adds a toll. I just have never been in this situation :/.. any form of advice as to what to do next or what I can say would really help! Thanks so much! (link)
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To be honest, you didnt really take your boyfriends feelings into consideration (which you should have)Since your boyfriend feels so strongly about this issue, you have 2 basic opptions, either you lose him and continue talking to Steve or you stop talking to Steve and keep your boyfriend. I would go with the latter of the options, apoilogize to your boyfriend and try to earn his trust back. Best Of Luck
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