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Feeling awkward about him looking into my eyes during sex?


Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 11:34 am

21/f

The guy I am dating and I have already had a conversation about what we liked in bed. We already discussed what we like most, what we can do to make things better, etc. But there is one thing that made me feel a bit awkward. He sometimes looks into my eyes during intercourse. I don't know why it makes me feel uncomfortable, maybe I'm just not used to it? I hear from a lot of people that guys don't usually do that and I have not ran into anybody who actually did that until now.

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable? Is there a way where I can get over the discomfort?

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Accidental infidelity


Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:35 am

When I was first married, I worked at a group home with other adult staff there, day shifts, night shifts, etc. After the residents would go to bed, the remaining staff would clean up the house and get things ready for the next day. One particularly rough evening, the residents went to bed late and the other staff (female) and I were finishing up with the chores and I said since I was the one staying for night, I was going to lie down and chill for a bit, she could go and I would do the rest later. We talked for a few minutes, and she asked if I wanted a massage...Obviously that should have been the first red flag. I said sure and laid down on my stomach and she rubbed my neck and back...She asked me if I wanted my legs done and I said ...

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Does college name truly influence on job prospect?


Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:13 am

Female, 18. Alright, here's the deal. I'm already going through my first year of college... but am still completely undecided as to what the heck I want to do with my life. I'm in a Geology major because I randomly found it interesting but backed up my choice with a bunch of bullshit whenever people ask me why I chose it. I'm considering changing from universities and here's why: I was too worried about the college I got into. I'm from Puerto Rico so the "best" universities here are considered to be the UPR ones (University of Puerto Rico) - I'm in one of them. I like to write a lot, therefore I considered going into an English major - NO. That's what I've heard, but from people I know and the internet. Sadly its true. Straight to...

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i really love him... but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me


Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:01 am

Hi.. 15F
*̩ know this guy about 5 years now and have a huge crush on him.. He asked me out and ofcourse *̩ said yes.. But *̩ live like 45km outside of town and he wants me to come vissit friday and sleepover .. *̩ realy want to but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me plus its far from home.. Help please?


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Facial cleansers


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 10:27 pm

We'll currently I've been using Mary Kay face cleanser but I keep getting blackheads and my acne will calm down and then go back to normal again. I'm thinking of switching to clean and clear but I don't know which products I should get. I'm only 13 and I don't wear any makeup at all. I just want my acne to go away. Clean and clears products have some really good reviews but there are a couple that scare me. I'm also doing sports so I need something to help with the oil from sweat. I wish I new my skin type for sure, but I think I have sensitive combonation skin but I'm not positive :/ But any help would be mouth appreciated!

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gonorrhea from fingers


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 7:20 pm

can i get gonorrhea from scratching myself with dirty fingers

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My friend and boys


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 7:19 pm

I have a friedm and she's really cool and all but when ever we talk it's always about some boy she likes and she irritates me because I'm like oh cool( trying to be supportive and all) and she's always like I don't want him to know , but then she'll be I hope he likes me. So I'm sitting here like tf. She always says that boys are looking at her but, at her boobs, and talking to her and stuff like that. And it's not like it's the same boy it's 3 and she claims that many boys "look" at her. How should I tell her that it's annoying as CRAP! Without making her feel slutty or something?

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Am I just being paranoid?


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 2:35 pm

I am a teenage female. I have always had severe anxiety.
For some reason, I feel like my dad keeps some sort of camera in my room. He's never given me any reason to think of him like that nor has he been sexual with me, but I just get so paranoid. I feel like there's cameras everywhere - In my vents, the bathroom.. Is this just my anxiety as always? I always look through my air vent to see if there's a camera, same in the bathroom. I'm currently in therapy for my anxiety, so that's why I wonder if it's just my anxiety.

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Chest hurts after hookah pen?


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 10:19 am

I will be 16 in two months, female, and from the US.

So, my friend got a hookah pen yesterday. I am familiar with them and have used them a few times, but I never had any problems after.

All of them that I've tried have been nicotine free, and I did use them only occasionally over the summer and maybe once or twice since then considering I don't own one myself.

But my friends boyfriend got her one for their anniversary and she was really excited about it. This was at about 3:00pm yesterday. I used it probably about 4 times in the next hour(when she left), but I was trying to do tricks. I can't remember for sure, but I don't think my chest hurt then.
My friend came over again around 7:3...

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Pregnant


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 10:18 am

Hello, 20 year old female. Some of you may judge me hard core right now but please spare me the mom-talks, I already know I messed up. Over Halloween weekend, I was at a party at my college with my friends. I was drunk but I have been drunker before so I wasn't worried about anything that I would do as I know I had control. This kid that I hooked up with last year was at this party and after we started to make out at this party, we walked back to his place. When we got back, we were still making out and he started to finger me. As the night progressed, I remember him putting on a condom, but I cannot for the life of me remember anything that happened after that. However, I do remember his roommates coming back to his apartment so we stopped...

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My job?


Posted Monday November 10 2014, 10:04 am

Hi everyone! I am 19 years old and need some insight on what i should do about my job that i am currently struggling with. I work in a preschool where they pay me 1000 dollars a month. I know all of the teachers, me and my boss are on good terms, and i have been working there for three months so far, so im familiar to this place. I honestly didnt feel like i was personally getting paid enough, however, i was desperate for a job because where i live it is very difficult to find a job that is willing to pay that much. The thing is, i live pretty far away from this school, and most of my salary goes on transporation. So basically, instead of getting paid 1000 a month, i get paid 600-700. This has been something ive been struggling for quite a...

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Did I wet myself, or "wet" myself?


Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 4:52 pm

So, I am a teenaged girl and today, after jumping rope, I noticed that I wet myself, just that I'm not sure how. I did have to go to the bathroom, but only to take a shit and it wasn't even that much, like I could hold it in, but after feeling my shorts all wet I went to the bathroom to check and my underwear was wet as well. But I really don't recall peeing in my pants. If I did pee in my pants, I would've noticed, wouldn't I? So that's why I came up with another conclusion; I could've possibly "wet" myself by getting aroused. But I don't recall having any sexual thoughts while jumping rope, I was just concentrated on jumping. So, if somebody could possibly answer and tell me what happened, that would be splendid. Because I real...

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First kiss with a guy I really like ..


Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 3:09 pm

I'm 15/f and let me clarify this is not my first this. I've actually kissed quite a few guys over the course of a few years. This will be my first kiss with this new guy though and we both like each other. We've cuddled at this one party and people said we kissed but we both couldn't remember since we were drunk. We have hung out a couple times and we are going out to lunch tomorrow and i think he might kiss me.. What can I do not to be nervous??

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gave my boyfriend a blowjob and now he's acting distant


Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 11:10 am

so I started a new school and became really close to this guy we later found out we both like each other but I feel like I have to do all the work, organising dates etc... we are now boyfriend and girlfriend and it was going really well but we have only been together for about 3 weeks. the other day we went for dinner and a movie and in the cinema he started touching my leg and gradually stroking up towards my core. we have had a few dirty conversations about what we want to do to each other so I didn't find it weird. I ended up touching his cock and trying to get him off but the movie finished so we decided to go to a park which I found really creepy and it was cold. so I tried to give him a handjob but it was difficult and we were running...

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What to do??


Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 6:55 am

Hi, so this past month I notcied this guy looking at me a lot, and he is 2 years older than me. When I mean a lot, I mean a lot, like he'll stare at me. On Thursday, I was leaving the library and he was there and he looked at me, as if checking me out or something, with his mouth opened. And one of these days, we were in the same class, and he was literally staring at me. When I looked up to catch his eye, he quickly turned away, as always. On Friday, I'd always catch him looking in my direction. We were eating and he was passing and we glanced at each other and that happened repeatedly. Yesterday, however, I got to talk to him more than I usually do. We actually had a conversation and I got to stand really close to him and it was awesome. ...

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embarrassing feminine troubles


Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 9:45 pm

I've never had my period come consistently- it's always skipped every other month but this time it's been 3 months and I wouldn't say I'm anxious, but I am a bit concerned. Could this relate back to my health in some way? Does it mean something? Is it common?

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my lip piercings i got....


Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 6:14 pm

ok,so i got my first lip piercing about two weeks ago. than,got two more took two out cause they were crooked. i,found another piercer and he did my kinda of like snake bites piercing. he,says they are straight but I'm I'm obsessing now about this cause i can't tell if they are even or if it just swelling. he,swears they are straight but ya this is my first full day of having them so any advice on the topic??

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I hate my dance studio


Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 3:59 pm

Hi, I am a junior in high school and hate where I dance at, it is so unproffessional. The only other dance studio options I have are either way too expensive our they just plain suck. I am on competition and we already have learned all of our dances so it is too late to back out now, but Im afraid that next year if I switch to a better studio, I will be in the back of all the dances. The studio I go to now skips classes monthly for stupid reasons and I feel like its a waste of my money. I am so done but if I quit all together, I will have no dance education and no hope for college.

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Doubting my relationship


Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 6:59 am

Hey everyone. I'm a 17y/o f btw,

So I've been with someone for a little less than two months. He's an amazing guy who speaks both my languages, he loves to read (almost as much as I do), he likes the same type of music, he's just great. He's a perfect gentleman and he agreed to meet my family the second week we were dating.

He's a year older. He's in college and he's working at his college. Still, he takes time off on fridays and has lunch with me. We live about five minutes away from each other, so he can also visit after school.

The problem is that I'm a very independent, cranky girl. I used to get home and go to sleep until the next day. And now I text him when I get home and if I'm g...

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Currently engaged, and my ex came back in the picture...


Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 1:19 am

I am currently engaged to be married... Happily engaged, if I might add. We're in the middle of planning our wedding next year... While looking at wedding invitations online... My ex, who holds a soft spot to my heart... Calls me. Begging me to come back to him. The last time I heard from him was 8 months ago. He has tore my world apart for 2 years this past October. I'm confused, because although I love my fiance, my heart is being dragged towards my ex. What should I do? Who should I pick?

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