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i really love him... but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me
Hi.. 15F
*̩ know this guy about 5 years now and have a huge crush on him.. He asked me out and ofcourse *̩ said yes.. But *̩ live like 45km outside of town and he wants me to come vissit friday and sleepover .. *̩ realy want to but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me plus its far from home.. Help please?
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Another mom here. I would not be okay either with a daughter going to sleep at some guys house or him coming to ours to sleep. Thats one issue your mom will have. Another may be that she doesnt know his parents. He may be a good kid but mom may be a drug addict wasted on the couch all day long while dad works two jobs to make ends up. I gave that example because thats what i discovered when I went to meet the parents of a kid my daughter wanted to spend time at her house.
What I did do, and you might suggest to mom, is telling my daughters, that I preferred if they did not date and do the going steady thing while in high school. But I wouldn't stop it either. Only watch the girls your age and how the dating and breaking up thing is affecting them in school and decide for yourself if thats what you really want to do. I gave them an option for the meanwhile. If there is a guy they liked enough as friends in school and wanted to spend time together with, then he was welcome to come visit at our house during the day. Since he's not in the neighborhood, it may only be weekends.
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I wouldn't want my daughter having any guy over for a sleep over either. Talk to your mother again and ask if he can just visit and then go home in the evening. That may be something she's open to.
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