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Hello, 20 year old female. Some of you may judge me hard core right now but please spare me the mom-talks, I already know I messed up. Over Halloween weekend, I was at a party at my college with my friends. I was drunk but I have been drunker before so I wasn't worried about anything that I would do as I know I had control. This kid that I hooked up with last year was at this party and after we started to make out at this party, we walked back to his place. When we got back, we were still making out and he started to finger me. As the night progressed, I remember him putting on a condom, but I cannot for the life of me remember anything that happened after that. However, I do remember his roommates coming back to his apartment so we stopped. Everyone settled in and went to bed and he pulled me into the bathroom for a blowjob. He didn't finish because his friend that was visiting, called him that he didn't know where he was. So, I told him to go out and look for him and I was going to stay back at his place. He came back with his friend, laid down next to me and sighed. He said he was so close to finishing and he was mad he couldn't. We both fell asleep and woke up the next morning and his roommate saw the condom on the floor, I guess he took it off at some point and never threw it away, I don't know. That was when I realized, though, that I didn't remember what happened from the time he put that on to the time his roommates came back. So, I am kinda freaking out that we did have sex and if I don't remember it, anything could have happened. I worry too much about everything all the time but if I don't remember it, it could've been unprotected or anything. The only thing I am certain of is that he didn't finish because he wanted a blowjob after whatever happened when I don't remember. And since guys can only finish once, there's no chance that I could be pregnant, right? I am supposed to get my period today. It's 10:00, I'm never super regular either so I could get it tomorrow or Wednesday, I span from about 26-29 days. I just need someone to put my mind at ease.
If he didn't finish, which I know he didn't because if he did, he would have stopped and he didn't because he asked me for a blowjob, then he didn't finish during whatever happened previously. This happened last weekend, so it's been a little over a week. So, that also can be taken into account that it was a week before my expected period which is when it's the lowest expected time to get pregnant. Someone please just help me out.
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Could you maybe ask him or does he not remember either? There are men who can only finish once per night and some who can climax a few times a night.
So the only way you'll know for sure is when you get your period or take a pregnancy test, although it's a little too early to take a test.
You should really think about getting birth control pills!! Using those AND a condom are to best way to prevent a pregnancy and protect you against STD's.
You won't have to worry about getting pregnant when your on the pill, so please take my advice!
I hope it goes well for you.
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