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He called me a tease??


Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 7:40 pm

So I was making out with this guy I really like, I was on top of him and you could clearly tell he had a hard on. So I decided to make this a little more interesting and lay flat on top of him so our bodies were plastered against eachother. We were still making out (yes, we were laying on the ground) I then began to move my hips from side to side like I was grinding on him. He pulled away from the kiss and said "you are such a tease" I couldn't tell if it was a good thing though. He then put his hands down the back of my pants and pushed me harder onto his 'area'. I started making out with him again and grinding even harder. He pulled away again and said "why do you do this to me" in a whining voice. Sience it is a week ...

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I just wanna be friends. I wanna say no but i don't wanna hurt his feelings and mess up our friendship.


Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 6:25 pm

One of my best friends likes me, I wanted to tell him I didn't like him and I tried to but he just isn't getting the point. I just wanna be friends. I couldn't see him as anything more than that. He wants to take me out on thursday and I wanna say no but i don't wanna hurt his feelings and mess up our friendship, what do I do?

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My Husband and I are constantly arguing and haven't had sex in 6 months !!!


Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 5:39 pm

I feel like I am trapped !
My Husband and I are constantly arguing and I don't think that I love him anymore.
We bicker about stupid things and he constantly frustrates me.
We have been together for nearly 16 years and married for nearly ten. It is the second marriage for both of us and we are in our early fifties.
At first we loved one another deeply and had a good sex life. He was caring and understanding and was a really nice caring person.
Things started going wrong a few years ago...I can't remember when or why. It was probably a slow degeneration.
Although he seems like the perfect Husband from an outsiders point of view..as he helps around the house, doesn't go out drinking with the boys or g...

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its really hard to say no when guys ask me to do sexual stuff because I LIKE doing sexual stuff with guys... but I don't want to be called a slut?


Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 11:34 am

Hi

When guys ask me to do stuff its hard for me to say no. I really enjoy fooling around and it feels really good. I dont want to be a "slut" but I really do enjoy it. How do you enjoy pleasure without being seen as a slut?


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Is 11 too young to date a 16 year old?


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 6:03 pm

I am a 13 year old girl and my freind is 11 all of the
sudden she likes a 16 year old is that right is she to younge
another thing our moms say we are to younge to date is that true??

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Dating This Guy


Posted Monday December 19 2011, 4:28 pm

I've been seeing this guy for over a month now. We get along great, we like the same things and we hang out basically every weekend. He is one of the few guys I can be completely myself around, even being the sensible or crazy me lol and he told me that's exactly how he feels.


Just the other weekend we were kissing and making-out when he paused and said "I like you... Really really like you... You are the one." When he said this I was a little suprised and kissed him again. Now he's got me thinking if he really meant that cuz he did have a few beer in him. I am cautious about who I give my heart too, but I just want to know what you think. When a guy says this is he actually thinking 'long term'?

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I have fun when I am with him... but I feel like I can do better.


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 8:57 pm

Okay well let me start off to say im 16 years old and I haven't had a boyfriend in two years after I broke up with a guy after a year relationship. The guy he was and usually what I go after is I guess like a jock you can say, but they always end up being a asshole. However, that's the kind of guys my dad like to see me with too. One whose out going, athletic, and all of that kind of traits. I been told that I'm really pretty not trying to sound concieted, but this goes on with my story. Anyhow there's this guy I went out with a few times. His totally not what I'm use too what so ever his more like the nerdy side I guess you can say. He met my parents today and of course I can tell my dad didn't like him so much. I have fun when I'm with hi...

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How do you tell if a girl is single or not without asking them?


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 4:13 pm

Hi, this may be a little sad, but i am having trouble finding a girlfriend. I go to school, work, and barely have time to get out. I am shy when it comes to the girls that i like. As far as girls who are my friends, i do just fine. I am 19 and i currently have a membership at the local YMCA. The problem is that i don't know how to approach and get a girl to go out with me. I had a "girlfriend" in my freshman year of high school, but we only went out on one date and we didn't even last a month. I would like both gender's perspectives on this. Please state whether you are female or male. THanks. Also, don't worry how many have responded to this already, i'll take as many as i can get.

P.S. how do you tell if a girl is single or not without asking them?

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Wierdo guy saying he is going out with me but he is NOT


Posted Sunday December 18 2011, 3:38 pm

So this guy i know is saying on Facebook that he is going out with me and he didn't even ask! (Even if he did i wouldn't say yes) anyways, i need him to stop!! people are starting to ask, and i don't really know what to say.

PLEASE HELP!

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I need to vent, is it too much to ask for?


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 11:13 pm

Ok so here's the scoop. My husband and I both are in our 20s. He just got back from a year long deployment in October. Lately i've felt like he doesnt want anything to do with me. He's constantly playing his video games. Like literally all the time! He gets mad when i ask him if he will do simply tasks such as the dishes or just picking up the house a little bit. He's currently on unemployment due to just coming back from deployment. I currently work full time and pregnant. He gets irritated when i ask for a little help and says i need to stop nagging him. I feel like nothing will get done if i dont and the reason i've seen that is because thats how it goes. If i dont push him to do something he wont do it. When i get home from work, i'm ti...

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What happened to us?? Where did the spark go?


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 10:15 pm

So I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years now... and we've really gotten into a routine. I am SO in love with him and can't imagine my life without him, but at the same time am quite frustrated with the way things are going. He always wants to make out, but for me it's gotten boring. It feels like a chore now... and I don't understand because I used to love it. I would always want to make out with him but now it's not the same. I don't know what's happened. And it isn't just the making out... it's hanging out too. We do the SAME things all the time and it makes me crazy. I've brought this up before and we've done things to make it more interesting and it works for a while but we always end up going back to watching tv f...

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how to propose a girl?


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 7:07 pm

hello
i dont know how to propose a girl and how to talk to them i mean what makes them interested to know about a boy how to keep them interested in me.

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I don't know he wants me or just just like me as a friend


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 6:12 pm

It's been more than a year that my last relationship ended and I am still not totally over it, but I have a classmate who I am really close to. I am 20, i am at my second year of the university and I know this guy since i started it. He tried at me once after we knew each other for 1 month, but he was drunk, i dont know if it counts than. I kinda let him down than because he was too fast, but i regreted it...So, we are really good friends, we study together, we laugh a lot together and I got to like him a lot. I know he likes me too, but I do not know if he wants anything. He sometimes comes over, we watch film or cook something and all. But nothing happens. I know it is kinda because of me too, because I cant really snow much feelings, but...

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i wanna be more dominant


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 11:59 am

My boyfriend and I have been going out for five months, and we're extremely comfortable with each other. We have such a strong chemistry and I know for sure I love him and he loves me. He is the first guy to never pressure me or rush me into sex. I can be myself around him. We've known each other for a long time. We have had sex about seven times...which may seem like a lot but I never feel bad about it since we have such a great, trusting relationship. He likes when I tease him and give him oral as a surprise, and he loves it. I've never been good at it before because I wasn't comfortable with my past relationships but he says I'm amazing. Anyways, I wanna be more...naughty and dominant. We're barely alone at my house but at his, we can be...

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Torn In the middle between my husband and the man I love.


Posted Saturday December 17 2011, 2:47 am

I'm a 30 yr old Mom of 2, torn between 2 men a man that I'm in love with that I'm not married too and another man that I love but am not in love with and am married too. We used to have an open marriage, but now it's gotten to the point of divorce...
I have 2 children with my husband, but their isn't any love there besides as friends. If there's any suggestions I would totally appreciate it. Thank you

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Still so in love


Posted Friday December 16 2011, 11:22 pm

Im severly heartbroken from a relationship I got out of about 5 months ago. The pain hasnt eased and it may be because he did talk to me a month ago making it seem his feelings were the same and he still loved me. Since then he hasnt tried contacting me or even ignored my attempts. Clearly hes not too interested in me...but I cant move on and I really need help. Its like I become insanely depressed when ever someone brings him up or anything cause im so jealous that hes still in their lives.
Any advice would be amazing..feel like im never gonna feel bettee and that im so alone :(

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how do you know if she really is cheating?


Posted Friday December 16 2011, 7:51 pm

how do you know if she really is cheating on him

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Long distance relationship breakup


Posted Friday December 16 2011, 1:37 pm

I've been in a long distance relashionship with a boy who lives about 1,000 miles from me. I know this may sound stupid but please just listen. We met on a teen chat room and i gave him my phone number (back in march) we started talking daily on the phone for hours.. We realized we were so compatiable and we decided to start dating. Mostly talks on the phone/ the occasional video chat. In August i convinced my mom to let me pay for a plane ticket for him to come here and go on vacation with us , she agreed. The day I met him at the airport was the best day of my life! We had the most amazing time ever at the beach but 4 nights and 5 days went very quick and before i knew it we were dropping him back off at the airport. Ever since he lef...

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I just don't know rather to leave or stay


Posted Friday December 16 2011, 1:48 am

Hi I am a 33 year old man, and I'm currently long distance dating a 21 year old.

We have been dating for over a year. And we text all day an mainly text during the night...

I love her she been there for me threw thick and thin... We have so much in common, we can talk for hours an never get bored...

An a while ago I found out she been talking to her ex via- email, im chat and phone convos... An she was still telling him she loves him, she wants too be with him... etc etc...

So when I confronting her, she told me the truth that she had been talking too him, and having sex with her other ex...

I forgave her...
And 5 months roll by...
And her other ex fro...

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I have a big decision to make..


Posted Thursday December 15 2011, 10:05 pm

To start this off, I'm a 16, almost 17, y/o girl. For more than a year now I've been on and off with a guy who is 18 right now. We're very close but, honestly, he is not the smartest person. We argue a lot because of it. He's threatened to kill me face to face one time because at a time when we weren't dating, I had sex with someone he knew. He was on probation over the summer because he has a problem with smoking weed. Don't get me wrong, I've smoked a lot with him before. BUT he was being drug tested and he promised me that we would both stop smoking together. He broke that promise and lied to me about it. I kept it. I'm not going to keep rambling on,
so to sum it up, I do feel a lot for him. That only might be because of how much...

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