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I don't know he wants me or just just like me as a friend
It's been more than a year that my last relationship ended and I am still not totally over it, but I have a classmate who I am really close to. I am 20, i am at my second year of the university and I know this guy since i started it. He tried at me once after we knew each other for 1 month, but he was drunk, i dont know if it counts than. I kinda let him down than because he was too fast, but i regreted it...So, we are really good friends, we study together, we laugh a lot together and I got to like him a lot. I know he likes me too, but I do not know if he wants anything. He sometimes comes over, we watch film or cook something and all. But nothing happens. I know it is kinda because of me too, because I cant really snow much feelings, but I like him a lot and I am trying my best to show him i am interested (i help him in homeworks, i cook for him, i let him talk about his favourite topics). I dont know how else to show him...or make him to make a step. To make sure what he wants. I know he and his ex girlfriend are really good friends, and he sometimes talks about her. I don't get him, I dont know how to make him tell me what he wants. I cant ask him, I am not good at talking. When he is with me i feel really comfortable and time flies so fast. I don't trust anyone, but I know i could trust him. I need help from someone to tell me what to do. I dont like to stay this undecided. Thank you for anyone for the help in advance.
Kata
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The things you do that you think are showing him you like him aren't any different than what you guys do. Like its all friendly based. Nothing more. This is probably why he hasn't made a move; either that or fear of being rejected again.
I know you said your shy, and you don't like to talk, but thats the only way to figure out what he wants from you. You have to ask him. If you don't than your always going to be undecided.
How about being more physical with him? Complimenting him more? More flirtatious?
If you don't feel comfortable askin him in person, than do it over the phone.
But I recommend you doing it in person.
You shouldnt come right out and say, "Hey do you like me as a girlfriend?"
Ease your way into it. Like this,
"you remember that night you were drinking and you asked me out? Did you mean it, or was it just the liquior talking?"
Once he answers.
If yes he meant it than..
"Do you still mean it, or have your feelings changed, HONESTLY?"
And go with what he says. More than likely they haven't changed. You just need to be confident and ask!
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