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i wanna be more dominant
My boyfriend and I have been going out for five months, and we're extremely comfortable with each other. We have such a strong chemistry and I know for sure I love him and he loves me. He is the first guy to never pressure me or rush me into sex. I can be myself around him. We've known each other for a long time. We have had sex about seven times...which may seem like a lot but I never feel bad about it since we have such a great, trusting relationship. He likes when I tease him and give him oral as a surprise, and he loves it. I've never been good at it before because I wasn't comfortable with my past relationships but he says I'm amazing. Anyways, I wanna be more...naughty and dominant. We're barely alone at my house but at his, we can be in his bedroom and be very sneaky about it. Any advice?
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Whenever you two are having sex, take charge! Don't be afraid to hop on top and ride him cowgirl (lots of guys LOVE that). It could even be as simple as initiating sex first. Pin him against a wall and kiss him, begin taking his clothes off, and take charge from the beginning. Have fun ;)
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You could just take control, tell him you want to take care of him. Or you want to take control. If you haven't tried the cowgirl position, you could do that because that's you doing the work and not him which is more dominate. You could pin his hands above his head if you're into that, or if you want to get more naughty hand cuff him ;P Just try out new things, and see what you and him both like. If you have the privacy to do so of course.
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