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Long distance relationship breakup
I've been in a long distance relashionship with a boy who lives about 1,000 miles from me. I know this may sound stupid but please just listen. We met on a teen chat room and i gave him my phone number (back in march) we started talking daily on the phone for hours.. We realized we were so compatiable and we decided to start dating. Mostly talks on the phone/ the occasional video chat. In August i convinced my mom to let me pay for a plane ticket for him to come here and go on vacation with us , she agreed. The day I met him at the airport was the best day of my life! We had the most amazing time ever at the beach but 4 nights and 5 days went very quick and before i knew it we were dropping him back off at the airport. Ever since he left that day things have been had. Always having that feeling of wanting something you know you can't have right now. We have been on/off for the past couple months not because of fighting or anything but because its been hard not being able to be with eachother. We have recently gotten back together . I told him that we might be moving down there in March ( which is true but i kinda think my moms just telling me what i wanna hear) If we don't move down there i told him i would pay for a plane ticket for him to come here in june and he could stay longer . I told him to not forget that in less then 3 yrs i would be eighteen and would move down there to be with him. & until that day i would keep paying for him to come here atleast once a year. We have been back on lately but last night he didnt text me or call me like he always does.. & so i knew something was up. I texted him n said "whats going on? :( ... & this morning i woke up to a 2 page message from him saying how he talked to his DAD and decided he just wanted to stay friends until i moved down there if i did. he said that he wanted to still be friends n he would still tell me he loved me because he does and always will. I cried when reading this. I'm very sad and haven't texted him back. Why can't he just wait until June then we can be together for like 2 weeks ... why cant he just wait for me? I know he's the one & he's all i think about. I'm sorry for the long story i just needed to get this out.. does anyone have any advice for me please? :/
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Hun, I know you are upset but you are still very young. Don't let this get at you too bad. You deserve someone who is close to you and who wants to pay for his OWN ticket to come see you. You have your whole life ahead of you and if it's meant to be, it would be. If not, then there's someone else out there for you. You shouldn't have to give up your whole life to go down there to be with him. He should want to be with you. A relationship will never work unless it's a two way street. You should both do for each other. I guarantee you will find someone who is special to you one day. :D For now, let this one be.
xoxo,
dottie4
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so you are approx. 15/16 years old. i, myself am 16 years old. Just think of it this way... maybe he wants to meet other girls before being tied down. that's not to sound negatively, but its the truth. i'm sure he still likes you, but why should he and yourself try to be tied down to someone who lives 1,000 miles away? especially at our age. If you do move down where he is, than fine, pick up your relationship from there. It sucks having a boyfriend/girlfriend that you cant hold and kiss everyday. You asked why could just wait for you...well technically he is. he is waiting till you down there or until your 18 years old. i swear to you...i am in the same prediacment, i have a guy waiting for me to turn 18 so we can be together. it sucks, but sometimes its just what you have to. dont be sad, you can still talk to him.
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