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ummm uncomfortable
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 10:15 pm
My friend hasnt admitted that shes a lesbian OR bi but me and my other friend are always freaked out because she gets really touchy feely & says she wants to have sex with us and were so hot/sexy/cute. I do this jokingly with my friends too but to a point...She actually seems serious about it. She'll say "Its so cute when you wear your hair down" and she wont say "LOL." Im not a homophobe, Im just not a lesbian. Im 100% straight, straight, straight! And I dont know WHAT to do..I cant just stop being her friend - shes nice but she gets so weird.
Also, I have kind of confronted her about it. When she does it Im just like "Ok, are you a lesbian or something..." And shes like "noo!!"
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i messed up
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 8:36 pm
so i have this friend joanna she just broke up with her boyfriend and they were going out for a year. jessica and this kid lenny were hooking up last week and lenny kept telling his best friend matt that he didnt even like her and he just wanted to have sex with her. on sunday joanna had sex with her exboyfriend andrew. joanna told me and i wasnt supposed to tell anyone but matt promised me that he wouldnt tell anyone. and he told lenny. me and matt like eachother but im not talking to him. he keeps calling me and begging for my forgiveness. i told him that if he tells lenny that he was lying that would help me forgive him. he is really sorry and he understands what he did.
should i forgive him?
sorry its long.
thank you
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Friends
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:55 pm
How do I get my good friends to be my BEST friends? Please help.%
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my friend
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:53 pm
so i have this friend named alicen. and i consider her my best friend. however, she doesnt think im hers. how do i get her to think im her best friend? Pleaseee help this is so important to me. Thanks.
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boobs
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:52 pm
how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks.
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calling
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:35 pm
I NEED HELP RIGHT THIS SECOND. please. I think my friend blew me off to go out with my other two friends. Im trying to call her, and find out if she did. How do I find out, without actually asking her? This is really important. % I can text or call her, but i really need some advice right now.
%Thanks in advance%
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friendship fading away?
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 7:31 pm
lately my friend has been ditching me for her other friends. I showed my anger towards her (i didnt tell her) and she asked me if I wanted to hang out with her this weekend. (we live across the city from each other so we don't normally get together) we participate in an after school activity with each other, but then one of my softball friends is doing it too.. so my friend feels left out.
I emailed her 4 times today asking her what she wanted to do, and she only replied once saying that she couldn't do anything until after 1pm. so around 2pm i called her 2 times and she didn't pick up. then I called her again around 3pm and she didn't pick up. I emailed her the 5th time asking her where she was and she replied an hour later ...
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she's pissing me off. [kinda long]
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 6:58 pm
my friend [let's call her bert] has, like, a serious problem. or so she says. i think its just because she has practically no self control and can't restrain herself. but, anyway, when she has a "good" book, she's ALWAYS reading. now, first thing you might think is: "well, good for her, most kids aren't reading ENOUGH." but when i say always i mean ALWAYS.
last week really pissed me off 'cause bert, i, and another friend [lets call her adam] were on a field trip and we stuck together the whole time. except instead of talking to us like friends should do bert read and read and read. and when we tried to tell her to restrain herself 'cause she was ignoring us, she said she didn't care [but she doesn't say that if sh...
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It's either something is wrong with me or I dunnoo....:S
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 3:07 pm
Hey guys...ok sorry but this is one of the long stories so thanks in advance if you're going to read this.. and give advice =) anyways
I've been so pissed lately at a lot of things! First i'm pissed at this guy who asked me out for dinner and told me not to make any plans on the day...and he said he'd call me to tell me what time but he never called...and i talked to him before the day by like a couple of days and he never said anything about the dinner! so its either he forgot or doesnt wanna hang out with me anymore :S ??
Second i've been pissed at my friends lately...not just one or two but most of them! And none of them really know...well kinda! im only gonna mentions a couple of them and save the rest for ...
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friend with eating disorders
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 2:17 pm
i need help. my best friend just told me that she is bilemic and has been for almost a year and that she has been getting help and is doing much better, but really bothered me that she felt like she couldn't trust me enough to tell me before she told the guy she was dating at the time and other people that she doesn't really consider close friends. what should i do...should i just forget about it and just let her know i'll be there for her or should i ask her why she felt like she couldnt tell me??
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so called friends
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 11:12 am
Well, this may be somewhat long..
On Tuesday, my friend Megan and I have had plans for about a week to go shopping. I asked her seventh hour to call and make sure with her mom, and she said that she did and that her mom said she was grounded. I said, okay, that's fine.
Now, when the bell rings to go home from school, I see her, samantha, and heather trying to rush out before I saw them leave with her...didn't work. I was walking with my sister, and she saw it and she calls her name then asks her what happened to her and my plans, and megan just looks at her and said something better came up.
So, I was ditched for the first time and it hurt like hell.
So the next day, she comes into school so bright and cheery to...
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poems
Posted Saturday April 21 2007, 9:40 am
i wanted to send my old bestfriend a scrap book. ANd i wanted to put poems in there not sad ones but poems saying what happend and why did we grow apart ya know.. So if anyone has any good poem sites or ideas it would be very great thanksss
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Need ways to cheer up a friend
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 11:41 pm
Im going to the movies with a bunch of my friends, and my boyfriend's friends. Everyone has a date they're going with and my friend Ali is totally flipping out because I told her I can't sit by her at the movies. I promised my other friend, Beth, that I would sit by her. My boyfriend Dane is sitting on the other side of me so I can't sit by both Ali and Beth.
I really think it's totally stupid that Ali is making a big deal over who I sit by, but she's one of my best friends and she feels like I like Beth more than her and she thinks she'll be so left out at the movies.
I need some way to make Ali happy, because I don't want everything at the movies ruined.
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surprise party
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:18 pm
so whats a good "going away" party theme or some ideas? for 14 year olds. mabye a huge scavenger hunt or dj and dancing? i just have noo idea what to do. it will be with boys and girls and about 20-30 people. it can be a surprise or not. thanks for your help, i really need it.
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Why is he flirting with me? he has a girlfriend!!!
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:02 pm
This guy has been going out with his girlfriend for a long time. I just moved to a different city a couple months ago,and i made a lot of friends, including him. he's like one of my best friends, nad i hug him like everyday. i'm not the one who'd mess around with another girl's boyfriend, ecspecially when she's one of my friends. that's against my morals. but recently, his hands have been wandering around where i feel is inappropriate since he has a girlfriend. he'll try to touch my butt, or he'll hug me a little too close(i can feel some things that i shouldn't if you know what i mean...). i tell him to stop or will push him away, but he keeps doing it. he even asked me out when he's still going out with his girlfriend! should i tell his g...
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My two other friends exclude me!
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 8:59 pm
Me and my other two friends are pretty close. I've just started hanging out with one of them about a year ago. We go out places and have a good time. But the thing is that they ALWAYS exclude me. They have sleepovers without me and they are even going to disney world together and talk about it in front of me all the time! Very rarely do I ever get included in their plans. I don't want to sound needy/clingy and whine to them about how they never include me and I'm afraid they'll get mad if I say something. I'm so hurt and confused. Do I have a right to be angry? What should I do to fix this?!
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ugh this girl.
Posted Friday April 20 2007, 10:04 am
okay so my friend is really mad at me for something that was even my fault, but anyways thats besides the point.
when this girl is mad at you, she can be sooo mean. and i mean, really really mean. and i want to be like "whatever shes mad at me i dont care", but if she's being mean, i know its going to get to me. does anyone have any words of advice i can think about when i see her? like...idk anything. =[
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songs
Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 10:36 pm
i dont know if this is in the right catagory or not but does anyone know who the song "graduation" is by? it sounds like alot of teenagers singing it or something and they used to play it all the time on radio disney. thanks!!!
Shelby ( Oochemo)
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Best friends leave me
Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 10:33 pm
ok i have these two best friends, molly and tabitha. there the best friends i could ever have and i would hate to loose them, but sometimes they just walk away from me or something. i dont know why, but they never wait for me to go to lunch, ( we hve the same class before lunch) and they just expect me to come running after them, and they always say " oochemo, come on!!! ( thats my nickname), and they will just be hanging out with me and run off together, and then when ever i go off and just leave them alone, thinking they want alone time, they always ask if im mad at them!! and i do get mad at them cuz they always leave me, and i am really getting mad. ive talked to them about it and they still do it. what should i do? im really sorr...
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best friend
Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 9:02 pm
14 / f and my best friend is 14 /f
well. my best friend lives in another town - not far, like
30 or so minutes. so she goes to another school.
well we call each other our best friend - but the thing is,
she's ALWAYS busy. and like, i thought i thought up a
solution - to just send really really long emails and when
she gets a chance, she can respond.
well i have written several long emails, but she hasn't
responded. i know she's not mad at me cause she does
not have a reason to be, but i think she's just busy.
it's really frustrating - i dont really like anyone from my
school. so i always look to her for guidance with
my pro...
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