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best friend
14 / f and my best friend is 14 /f
well. my best friend lives in another town - not far, like
30 or so minutes. so she goes to another school.
well we call each other our best friend - but the thing is,
she's ALWAYS busy. and like, i thought i thought up a
solution - to just send really really long emails and when
she gets a chance, she can respond.
well i have written several long emails, but she hasn't
responded. i know she's not mad at me cause she does
not have a reason to be, but i think she's just busy.
it's really frustrating - i dont really like anyone from my
school. so i always look to her for guidance with
my problems and such.
i have tried talking to her about it, and she apologizes
proFUSEly but it just.. she's just a busy girl.
i have a diary, but it's not the same as a person.
i have other friends, but i can't tell them stuff like
i tell her.
please help...
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I think you should just talk to her about it and if she doesnt react like if she continues to be too busy for you just give her some time.I was in the exact same situation lately with my best friend.I moved last year and lately she never had time for me because she was too busy doing other stuff..I did the same thing you did,write her lonnnnnng letters everyday and she still couldnt reply.my only solution was to back off for a while and next thing you know she calls me and acts like whats wrong with you?you dont even botter writing me anymore and stuff..well she told me the thing was that she was as busy as your best friend is so she never had the time to reply my emails but she alwayz read them and she was happy i took the time to write her everyday.and the fact that she never replied didnt mean she forgot about me..
well anywayz lemme tell you something:if your friendship with your best friend is solid enough then a litle distance and some unreplied emails dont mean sh*t.dont worry about it soon she'll realize something's missing in her life and she'll get back at you.I promise!
And remember:"true friends never go away" so even if you guys arent as close as you used to be,im sure she'll alawys be here for you.
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okay. a friendship doesn`t work if it`s one ended. if you`re trying, but she`s too busy to even try, there`s no point. either ask her to work out a schedule where she can help you out, talk to you, and still be your best friend, or just find someone else to talk to. there`s not much else you can do if she`s not trying, and sounds like she isn`t.
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