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ugh this girl.
okay so my friend is really mad at me for something that was even my fault, but anyways thats besides the point.
when this girl is mad at you, she can be sooo mean. and i mean, really really mean. and i want to be like "whatever shes mad at me i dont care", but if she's being mean, i know its going to get to me. does anyone have any words of advice i can think about when i see her? like...idk anything. =[
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wow, i was in that same exact situation until about two days ago with my wonderful, um, friend.
except, i was the one mad at her & her & her retarded self got mad at me for that. makes no sense, right?
me & three of my other friends just finally had enough. we tried to work it out with her & this is what we said:
"look, we haven't done anything to you, so chill out. you don't want to be our friend & we don't want to be yours, so just back off. we don't care what you say to us, because half of the time we don't give a shit & the other half, it's either pathetic or just doesn't make sense."
of course, OUR friend has to be a little jerk about it & didn't back off. if your friend does that, just let it go because she obviously doesn't have a life if she has to keep harassing you guys. if it gets too bad though, just go to the counselor.
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Just ignore her. If you let her get to you, she's gonna keep doing it. So toughen up.
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Wow some friend. I had a friend like her, I hated her secretly and then during lunch i got a perfect shot at her head with a bunch of wet paper towels and when i went over to her she flipped me over literally and i landed on the floor in pain then she hit me. Not much of a friend. So really shes a shitty friend is she seriously is getting really pissed at you. Just say it wasn't your fault because it wasn't and if she starts being mean just be like "Shut up, get over it, your so dramatic. I said i didn't do it and if you don't believe me then i just don't care anymore. Don't even bother trying to be mean to me because it doesn't affect me at all".
Lol thats what i would say. Because really you cant just sit there and take that. You have to stand up for yourself. Be confident and mature about it. Shes a real b**ch if shes gonna be mean to you. Sorry if me insulting your friend bothers you but seriously i don't like when people are mean to each other especially if they are friends. I went through the same torment, and i would hate to stand by having other people getting bullied by there friends.
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when you see her, be nice. smile to her and say hi. love your enemy, it pisses them off ( : she's obviously doing all this mean stuff so you will feel bad. so act like whatever she's doing isn't affecting you at all. be a better person than her. don't be mean back, beacuse then thats being low just like her. just be nice to her and if a friend asks you if you like her, and you really dont just say yes because god only knows what will happen if she finds out. good luck!
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