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It's either something is wrong with me or I dunnoo....:S
Hey guys...ok sorry but this is one of the long stories so thanks in advance if you're going to read this.. and give advice =) anyways
I've been so pissed lately at a lot of things! First i'm pissed at this guy who asked me out for dinner and told me not to make any plans on the day...and he said he'd call me to tell me what time but he never called...and i talked to him before the day by like a couple of days and he never said anything about the dinner! so its either he forgot or doesnt wanna hang out with me anymore :S ??
Second i've been pissed at my friends lately...not just one or two but most of them! And none of them really know...well kinda! im only gonna mentions a couple of them and save the rest for another question...because then it'll be too long..
OK ive known this girl since grade 5!! and i moved to another skool after that year and then we re-united after a couple of years and started hanging out again!! me and her are really close!! with this other girl too...we've always talked to each other about anything and we were like sisters...anyways so you can say that ive known her for like 8 years now...
so the problem is that ive been trying sooo hard to hang out with her or even TALK to her for the past half year!! and everytime she says she cant and has a different excuse...either shes too busy studying...or too busy with her skool friends...or is grounded...or has a family visit!! im soo sick of it and when i wanna open the subject to tell her that im annoyed and i miss her i wanna hang out and everything...shes like i knoww! even though it doesnt seem like it but i miss you its just im tooo busy with skool stuff!! and shes never called and never even talks to me online!! its like she completely erased me from her world!! (Same with the other girl btw)
Ok now another friend that ive been with for 7 years! we've been best friends since! and like we always hang out and everything and i depend on her but she doesnt know about the other 2 girls...im the type who doesnt express my feelings alot..if im pissed then im pissed i dont share it with anyone..i feel like im pyling on other people problems so anyways the problem is these last few weeks ive been feeling like shes avoiding me....and hiding a lot of things from me...she knows i know them... yet she doesnt tell me :( like i always find out! easliy...but i mean i always wanna be there for her if she ever needs me but the problem is its hard to get her to open up...
Ok another friend problem.... i dunno y but maybe theres something wrong with me...thats y i have problems:S or maybe im too 'paranoid' or watevre....anyways so this friend of mine!! WE ALWAYS HANG OUT!! and shes older than me by like a year...but she went to another skool a couple of yrs ago...anyways we just completely drifted apart! i try to talk to her and hang out but i dunno :( its like she doesn't want to...agh i dunno maybe i am too paranoid ! anyways ill keep it to here for now! the rest will be on later! im gna take a break from complaining! heh thanks a lot guys!! any advice would be appreciated... :D
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Hon,
I'm sure if you told at least one of them how you feel about them - face to face - the rest will come out easily for the other friends.
This is something that no one can help you with - you and only you are able to do it.
I wish you'd tell them soon. I'm sure they're waiting.
Best of luck.
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You need to make new friends. If your friends aren't comfortable to come to you when they have problems & whatnot, then you need to drop them & find some who will. And they avoid you or make excuses. Why still be friends with them?
As for the guy, he probably forgot. Just talk to him about it & set a new day/time.
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Sweetie-
Im thinking you need to make some new friends!!!
First: Ignore that guy that blew you off. He is obviously not worth it at all if he is going to lead you on like that and im positive there are a lot of other better guys out there for you.
okay?
Well to me it sounds like you need to cakm down jus a little. It seems like you are stressed you need to confront your friends on what you think they are doing to you. If you never talk about your problems between them nothings going to change. Im sure you can find other better friends than these girls if they are just striaght up jerks. i advise you to stop worrying so much because you never know if something could be a big misunderstanding or something!!
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