Hey guys!
I like to play softball and i love to hang out with my friends, go shopping and just have a fun time overall. I know a lot of stuff about life because ive been through a lot in my past an
I absolutley love this website and id love to help anyone with their problems, so you can ask me about anything!!! :]
Gender: Female
Age: 16
Member Since: April 17, 2007
Answers: 23
Last Update: March 21, 2009
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I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
so here's the messed up part... i told this girl VICKY who does talk to him, not his girlfriend, that i like him before she started liking him and in class she brags about how cute he is and today she brought him in the room and i started crying because thats something i tend to do when i get angry instead of fighting i cry! well its been three months since my dad took my phone away in that time me and him stopped taking in that tim i think he kinda has feelings for think vicky girl and in that time ive never stopped thinking about him and trying to think of ways to talk to him in again.
what can i do to make him like me again to stop this nonsense with that girl vicky and how would i go about trying to talk to him again????
i have his house number now he lost his phone i mean he litterally lost it so i have his house number should i call him or talk to him in person and WHAT SHOULD I SAY??? sorry or how ya been?? what?
i really need your help! actual experiences and actual words would hepl me alot!!!
thanks
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ohh mann im sorry the phone getting tooken away thing is what can ruin something im sorry dude.
but i honestly dont think you should be that sprung over this guyy. If he has a girlfriend AND talks to another girl do you really thinkk hes worth liking??
cus imagine if you were his girlfriend and he was talking to that vicky girl.yea im thinkinn hes unfaithful.
i also thinkk you are overthinking the situation. The best thing you can do is just let him go. If he wants you then let him pursue you. if he doesnt he wont. I know it will be hard but you can do it. He's not the only hot guyy in the whole world.
There are so many other guys out there that would treat you right if youu give them a chance.
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16/f.
I don't like my bangs, and I want them to start from the corner of my forehead.. you know? & then I want it choppy. I dont want it like emo/scene really but.. kinda? does anyone know any good picutres of hairstyles or anything? i searched it online & i couldn't really find anything..
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well if im thinking the same thing as you look up pichers of carrie underwood because her bangs or super cute.
or you could cut your bangs straight across but kinda long and swoop them to the side.
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ok this is a pretty embarrasing but i have to say it to ask the question so bare with me please lol..i have fingered myself before but i dont see where it feels good at all unless you are messing with your clitoris...where does all the sensation come from when a mans penis goes in and out when to me that doesnt really feel good...is it just me or am i mistaking how it works?? Any help is appreciated (except for calling me retarded):D thanks all (link)
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well to start off id have to agree with the other answers.
and you are mistaking how it works because a guys penis is wayy different than your fingers.
you just have to wait when you start having sex.
and if it still doesnt seem to feel that good try different positions.
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ive had sex about 4 times im wondering when does it start to feel good. (link)
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Well i think that it should of started to feel good by now.
Maybe you and your partner could try different positions. Thats probably the best thing to do because it feels different with different positions.
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okay so i have a problen with hairspray and curling irons.
i divide me hair in three layers to get my whole hair curled
but in each section i spray the hairspray then the second layer then tha last one
i dont really like how it turns out coz well it doesnt look "natural" it looks "Styled" eww
if i want the "nautral" nice boucy hair curls, do i just curl the 3 layers and do hairspray LAASSST!!! for the WHOOLE hair or spray each 3 sections of the hair?
do you get it?
or do you think the curls will come off right when i dont use hairspray in less than 10 seconds...
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okay so i like to curl my hair too and what works the best is when you curl your hair do it with about a half inch barrel curling iron and do what you normally do, but just dont use so much hair spray. Get hair spray that has extra hold so you dont have to put so much in.
AFter you curl your hair spray it lightly with hair spray and after it dries run your fingers through your hair to break apart the curls so they will be looser and bigger and look more natural.
Thats what i do and i get compliments, so i think it can work for you too.
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ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 3 months, and i was kind of wondering when things are supposed to go to you know, like the next level in a relationship? I mean, he knows that i am a virgin and don't have that much experience with guys, but how would i show him that i am ready you know? and how long do people usually wait once you're in a relationship? (link)
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Well everyone is different when it comes to relationships.
I definatley think that you really need to talk to your boyfriend about this because he's probably wondering the same stuff.
Its all about when you feel that you are emotionally and physically ready to have sex. If you talk to him i think that it will help you become closer with him and figure out when you both think you are ready to take your relationship to the next level.
Just please make sure you are totally ready because losing your virginity is a big thing and you don't want to lose it to the wrong person.
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I Finally told this guy that i like him but the when i told him that he asked me if i was being serious, i said yes. he didnt tell me that he liked me back, but he did tell me that he thought I was out of his league. so is that basically i did like you at a point or not? i dont know, and well i would really like to start talking to him but the thing is that he is moving out of the states in three weeks. :( major frown. and i dont know what to do. he cant stay because he has to move with his family out of the us due to his dads job.
im super confused, i do like him and well i really dont know what to do.
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Okay so pretty much im thinking this guy is totally not worth your time.
He's leaving anyway so why do you want to start something with him? youre going to be even more hurt when he leaves if you start liking him even more.
I know it might be hard but especially since he didnt really say that he likes you back i think that you should really move on.
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im a 20 year old male and i live in Canada
im dating a 14 soon to be 15 year old girl.
i wanna know if this is wrong? and if i have a problem.
i didnt think i did, but all my friends say i do.
so now idont know
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Okay rememeber that you are a grown man and she is still young and growing up.
Do you really think it is morally correct for you to be seeing someone so young?
If you really love her than i think that you should break things off because you can get in trouble with the law.
Also do you really think this is good for her to be dating someone much older than her forcing her to grow up faster than she needs to?
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14/f
I've heard the expression to 'Play hard to get' but how exactly do you do that? Like what are some things you do to play hard to get? Thanks (; (link)
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haha oh man that is the most thing to do sometimes.
Well flirt with him a lot but if he tries to make a move pull away or tell him no in kind of a playful way.
This will usually make the guy want you even more and try harder.
It also shows that you arent easy.
just dont do it too much or else the dude might give up.
hope i helped.
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we have been together for over a year, me and my boy. my boyfriend is basically the most popular boy in school, good looking, active and sweet. me, im active but i'm not a geek nor popular. i'm just you know, average. i'm not really skinny or really fat, and i'm not gorgeous or ugly either. anyways we were talking today about our ex boy/girl friends and parties we have attended && such. so then he was telling me, "at parties i would always be flirting with a hot girl and in like five minutes making out with them" then that kinda ticked me off, but it's true. before he was with me, i went to same partys with him and he could/did. i'm not gonna lie i've made out at parties too but not like in five minutes and stuff. so i went home and i guess i'm kinda jealous of him. the thing is though, he loves me, and i mean alot, why else would he go out with a flat chested girl for more then a year. dont get me wrong, i love him too. but since he told me that i guess i'm just jealous, jealous of all the girls that have ever kissed him, and when i kissed him goodbye, in my mind all i could think about was all those girls who have touched his lips. basically, how can i get over this, jealousy i have? opinons or comments are appreciated =/ (link)
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Well think about it this way. Like the other people said those girls are in his past and being jealous is just going to be a natural thing that comes along. You need to think better of yourself! Think of your good qualities that he likes and it will make you feel better about yourself.
Just remember that he loves YOU not those other girls that obviously didnt mean that much to him or else he wouldnt be with you.
I hope you guys have a good relationship :]
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O.k., so I'm hispanic, 15 years old and I'm a softmore in highschool. The girls in New Jersey are the farthest from civilized and nice I have ever come to meet. Now, for some reason, they all seem to hate me, and they show it very clearly. Talking about me behind my back, bumping into me, or even speaking about me outloud but indirectly, just so I know its about me. I mean, seriously, we'll be in college soon! So, I know its no one's issue, but I am THE nicest of people (to a certain extent, of course), and not bitchy (though a bit conceited) or confrontal at all, so I really can't bring myself to ever stand up to them...I dont know what I should do, because any place I go here, I end up hating...so if anyone could give me some great advice and please help. Thanx. (link)
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Well there could be a number of reasons why they dont like you.
1.They could be jealous of your looks or your friends or a boy that likes you but doesnt like one of them or something you have?
2. Are you sure you havent done ANYTHING to make any of them angry with you?
3. they are just bitches overall they dont like you because they choose to. I hate it when people do that but sometimes people put other people down because they are insecure and it makes them feel better about themself. (pretty immature)
Well I think that you should think about what you would like to say to these girls and somehow find the courage to stand up to them and ask why they are doing this to you. If you can't bring yourself to do that another option would be to write them a note or email or myspace or something asking the same thing that you would say to them. Dont be mean when/if you do that so they be evenbmore mean to you!
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Hi i'm a teenage girl who has given up on relationships and everything else in life.
Before i commit suicide i want to have a hookup with someone.
How do I go about getting a hookup with a guy who won't hurt me or abuse me?
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oh my fricken god.
Everyone goes through tough times in their lives but you can't just feel sorry for yourself and kill yourself!!
Its just not right.
Im sure there are people that care about you!
But if you realllly wanna hook up with someone go somewhere like on vacation or out of town or whatever and its fun to meet someone and like have like a fling with them for the fun of it!!!
But killing yourself wont help anything!!!
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ok i recently posted this..
ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!!
and the other day he imed me and was like..baby i'm sorry i made the biggest mistake breaking up with you, will you please forgive me..i really love him..so much..i just dont know what to do..should i go back to him or not???
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Well dont hide your feelings from him. Tell him how much you love and care about him and how youve never felt this way before ect. I dont really think there is an actual way to convince someone to go out with you again, other than ust telling him how you really feel. Also, ask him why he wanted to get back with his ex and stuff so you can hear his side of the story too. After all of that if he doesnt seem like he cares dont even bother with him. He obviously a jerk. You and I and everyone else knows that there are plenty more guys out there for ya!!
and about the im thing...remember what i said before and ask him what all has been going on with him. If you really would like to get back with him and he is truley sorry then i think its perfectly fine. Although, if he ever does this again leave him for good because he'll probably keep doing it.
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I'm so sick of being the shy little nice passive girl that I am; I'm always ignored,especially by guys. There's this kid that I really really like and just when I think I have a chance with him this random girl comes along and flirts with him like crazyyy and I'm just so tired of being too shy to do anything about it. What can I do to get this guy's, or any guy's, attention? Other than the obvious; like talking to him about his hobbies, music, laughing at his jokes, blah blah blah because that's obviously not working to well. (link)
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Well i think that you should start out by just smiling at him whenever you see him. It will let him know that you might be interested. Then like you said before about finding out his hobbies i think you should try to gather up the courage and ask him about something that he is intersested in or something. You dont have to be shy and try to ask questions about him, and then maybe he'll start to ask more questions about you. If he does that means that he probably wants to get to know you better. I think you should overall try to relax. You've got nothing to lose!! I know you can do this.
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please will some one be my girlfriend
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Dude are you serious??
haha this is ridiculous.
I think you should find someone in real life instead of asking random people on advicenators if they would like to be your girlfriend. Im sure there is someone out there that you can meet in real life and not just go out with someone that you met on here. I think that is the worst kind of relationship is where you met someone in a chatroom or website or something. (unless its like match.com) but still.
You needa get your head straight!
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ok wll i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds do u think thats underweight overweight or average ?? (truthfully because i need to know)
if u could tell me that would help A LOT !! (link)
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It shouldnt matter what other people think of you!! Look at yourself in the mirror and you decide. I'll at least tell you that you are definatley not overweight, so you dont have much to worry about there. I dont think you need people to decide for you because society shouldnt make your descisions!
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Well i dont know how old you and your friends are but it sounds like this is kinda ridiculous of them. Imma agree with you when you say it is really weird because no one wants to be seen with a whole bunch of kids that (im guessing your like 13 or up??) are acting like they are five years old. I belive that you HAVE to tell your friends that what they are doing is annyoing or else they wont get it. Tell them how weird they look in public and what it does to you. If they are your REAL friends they will understand and stop doing it and grow up. If not you can always make new friends, theres a lot of other people that wont act like that!!
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Okay, so I've always wondered--if you have a lip piercing [lip ring on the bottom lip], will it feel weird or get in the way of kissing? (link)
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Well ive kissed a guy that has a lip piercing and it doesnt really make much of a difference at all. Im sure you just get used to it!! I dont really think that you have anything to worry about!!
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Ok theres this boy and I reallly really like him and his my brothers like bestfriend in the holl widest world.. and hes about 3 years older then me. I dont wanna like him cuz this boy i like refers to himself as a big brother to me..which i dont like.. that AND he thinks of me as this little girl WHICH IM NOT
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I think you need to try to act more mature around him and try to show him that you arent a little girl. Then again if you do that and go too far with it you wont be acting like you, and no one should ever change for someone. Its completley wrong. Try to have more serious conversations with your brothers friend. If things dont work out i suggest that you should probably try to move on because he may not be worth it. There is plenty more better guys out there for you!!
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Okay so about a month & a half ago this guy asked me out & I said "Yes." but he was one of my best friends but i kinda liked him, so I was so confused, so i finally thought abuot it and made a decision about a week aftr i broke up with him because it felt so ockward to be making out with my best friend.
About three days after i broke up with him he started going out with my best friend, at first I was okay with it but after i saw them making out and holding hands I got sad & really jealous & I realized how much of a mistake that I made. Now they have been going out for almost a month & everyday at lunch they sit with us & they always cuddle up, get really close, hold hands, whisper in each others ears & I have to leave the table or else I get angry & yell or get sad & cry. There are other guys that want to go out with me but the only one I want is the one my best friend is going out with. I just REALLY need to know how to get over this, jealousy & what to do when I see them acting that way & what to when he flirts with me because yesterday he took my hand on the bus & held it. :/
I just really need help. I get so angry I want to et back with him so bad ! !
Personally I don't think they'll ever break up. :((
&&by the way I'm thriteen.
Thanks.
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Well everyone knows that all girls get jealous when they see their ex with another girl. Thats just the way it is, and no one is going to change it. I belive that one of the worst things a friend can do to you is go out with your ex like right after you break up. This kid is obviously very immature because if he really cared about you he wouldnt go and get with your best friend right after you guys broke up. Confront your friend and your ex about why this is bothering you so much. If they dont act any different you need to move on!!
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